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    Default Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Advice

    I met this girl while sarging with my friend, and she seemed into me. Gave me a lot of Kino, etc...

    She even suggested we get some coffee sometime.

    The thing is why did she give me an EMAIL, and not her number??

    The Only reason I could think is that she already has a boyfriend, and is planning on cheating..

    Anyone have any ideas ? Am i right ?

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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    Also any suggestions on how I should compose this email?

    Should i be cocky? smooth? to the point ??

    Obviously i'm going to ask her out for coffee at some Starbucks.

    Any helpful suggestions are welcome.

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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    Cmon guys, i'm always helping people out........no one ?

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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    Hey. I actually remember David DeAngelo talking about asking a girl for the email instead of number. It gives you some advantages as she can answer to it when she is not busy giving you a better result than if you call her when she is busy. I think you also have more time to plan your responses and being cocky and funny would be good. I think its difficult to determine the reason she didnt give the number but you could ask for it after you set up a date with her.

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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    Can you give some examples of Cocky/Funny in an email ?

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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    Next time, (unless you live in washington D.C.) tell her no, you don't email, then take out your phone and begin to spell her name.

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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    Next time, (unless you live in washington D.C.) tell her no, you don't email, then take out your phone and begin to spell her name.

    So you think her giving her email was a sign of disrespect ?

    What i'm trying to understand is if she's giving me High-Fives, and other IOI's which were initiated by her, WHY is she giving me her email, and not her number ?


    It just seems so odd..

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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    I think the email route is kinds of a "safety net" for girls who aren't quite sure about who they're talking with.

    It's less invasive & easier to ignore than someone blowing up her phone. You can simply ignore & delete, or set the filter to send it straight to junk if necessary.

    I haven't run into any problems getting the phone number though, and most of the time I never ask for it. She's usually the one to offers it, or at least brings up the topic of exchanging digits.

    It's really all about building comfort & rapport in the beginning; Not coming on too strong & creeping her out, but also not being too passive & a big wuss.

    If you're good with email, you get her number in no time though.


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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    Giving out email is a blow off. It's a dead form of (light social) communication. My guess is, you didn't build enough attraction or common interests for further dialogue. Responses are rare.

    I think the best you can do is, pique her interest with an exciting event or story teaser then sign off with your name & a brief/funny reference to your meeting. Don't tell her enough that she can complete the thought or research details on her own. This is what I would try:

    YOU: Hey Miss Animal Print, There's an amazing show downtown this weekend. Door password required. Have you heard about this? -Mystery Drink Bob"
    HER: Hey, What show?
    YOU: (wait at least a full day) Excellent line-up. Some undiscovered gems. I rarely check email but I can text details later. Put on your party dress!"

    It's her responsibility to give you the number. Don't ask for it. You are a mildly interested Alpha with many options. If she wants to communicate with you, she can follow your lead. You are reframing the communication into a route that's attractive to both of you.

    BTW, I heard a hilarious & confident PUAs response once: "If you give me your email I'm going to go home & cry. Let's exchange numbers & we will get coffee soon. Look, I'll send you a very witty text tomorrow & we will set something up." She complied. Haha!
    But this is even better:
    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    Next time, (unless you live in washington D.C.) tell her no, you don't email, then take out your phone and begin to spell her name.
    Suave, why the D.C. reference?

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    Default Re: Why do girls sometimes give Email, and not their Numbers? ALSO need Adv

    I don't think I have been offered an email ever because I always use my 95% number close. Anyway, I saw Thomas Jefferson, my wing in action once when he asked how should we continue this conversation (I hate this, btw) and the girl offered her email.

    He in a very alpha was said, no thank you. I don't email much. If you want to exchange numbers that's fine. She gave up the digits.

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    So you think her giving her email was a sign of disrespect ?

    What i'm trying to understand is if she's giving me High-Fives, and other IOI's which were initiated by her, WHY is she giving me her email, and not her number ?


    It just seems so odd..


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