Haven’t been here for a while, but I’ve been reading a good bit when I have time. So, I have a FB page & a FB business account page. Some of my pics , my timeline pic & about me and my business is public. But that’s it and my business page of course.
So, I met this girl at a popular bar a little over a year ago. I just walked over said hello and began talking to her. She seemed really nervous, chewing on her drink straw etc. I was with a few buds and I noticed she was with a bunch of friends so I slowly backed off telling her I had to run and said, it was good talking to you. I have not seen her since, I’ve been really busy and frankly im ashamed to say it has taken me a good while to get over my oneitis w my ex. So, I really have not been out much at all.
Around this past Easter, I was looking for a friend of mine on fb that I havn’t seen in a long time and for some crazy reason when I plugged in the 1st 2 letters of his name her fb profile pic came up. Fyi, my friends name begins with As. So, I decided to email her, me…”hey, remember me from……..? I introduced myself, we spoke for a while, then I had to leave, and + you looked kinda nervous. How have you been?”
I received no reply and her page disappeared which normally means she blocked me. I thought, f***k it, her problem and moved on. Then about 3 weeks or so ago, I chked her page and it was back! Her profile pic is her and a kid, which maybe her son. She has this crazy face with her sticking her tongue out. Well, I figured maybe she’s married and decided to ignor. But yesterday, just because I was curious, I decided to give it another check, and this time her wall is public, it wasn’t before, and all her friends are saying “Happy Birthday” to her. So, I decided to send her a message, me: “ Well, your profile has come up again, and looks like everyone is saying Happy Birthday, I may as well also. Happy Birthday and I hope it’s a good one!”
Then today, I chked her page & a pic of her and my ex is up with what looks like a party! And so I unblocked my ex's page and there they are, the same pic on her wall too! Could this be " the jokes on you, kinda thing"? I guess now I need to back off completely? Do you guys agree?, and since I have gotton no response anyway, maybe backing off would be the best thing, right? I just don’t want to be looked upon as a fb stalker or a creep, or a fool!
What do you guys think I should do? Fyi, when me & the ex were together I never met this girl, the 1st time was at this bar as I explained. I just cant believe the world is this f**&^%king small. And if this chick is in fact a milf, I give her at least a 7.5, maybe an 8. My gut says to ignor it, her and move on. No more emails, at least not until she answers mine, right? And what about the ex? And the ex has been history for 2 yrs or more now.