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Thread: Urgent: D2 ground work laid for HB9 hired gun, coffee tomorrow 8am

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    Default Urgent: D2 ground work laid for HB9 hired gun, coffee tomorrow 8am

    1st mentioned here: Help building attraction without telegraphing too much interest

    Thursday I had coffee with a mid-40s Cougar friend where the waitress was gorgeous & very friendly. I usually don't assume hired guns are into me because they are basically paid to give IOIs. But every time she came to our table, we locked eyes for longer than normal. It was intense. I thought I was playing it cool but as soon as I mentioned the waitress, my cougar friend said, "Are you interested? I sensed something."

    Sunday the cougar texts me: Her name is XXXX. She's 25 & just out of a 4yr relationship. She's open to all of us hanging out sometime.

    Awesome. Apparently, the cougar stopped the HB9 at work to talk about me. It's kind-of high school & I hope it didn't seem planned. But anyway the HB9 wants a group hangout so I'm inviting a some friends out for black-tie bar-hoping Friday night. My goal is to number-close the HB at her job tomorrow morning or at least get a solid commitment for Friday.

    What's my morning mission?
    Go early, make a joke about the cougar match-maker & invite her before the cougar arrives?

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    Default Re: Urgent: D2 ground work laid for HB9 hired gun, coffee tomorrow 8am

    Well, here's how it went:

    I arrived early, sat in her section & started playing w my phone.

    HB: Good morning
    Me: Hello, you must be XXX, I've come to apologize for my match-maker friend. (I said softly w a smirk)
    HB: Oh that's you. Nice to formally meet you. (She paused)
    Me: Yeah, you too. I'm DareME.

    She asked me to repeat myself because I spoke too softly. Dah! Freaking AA sets in hardcore...I blanked on my follow-up...thinking about my verbal blunder...other customers listening...picking-up an HB9...& a hired gun... Stop thinking. FOCUS. You have a mission.

    HB: Sooo, how have you been? (Filling dead-air)
    Me: I'm actually here to invite you out with us on Friday night.

    HB starts thinking. Her face contorts like a denial / sh1t test is coming but I confidently seized the moment.

    Me: We are doing a black tie bar hop in Hollywood.
    HB: Oh really? Cool. Yeah I can make that.
    Me: I started it this summer because we are sick of the L.A. jeans & hoodie look.
    HB: Good idea
    Me: Thanks. Some of the guys bought suits & of course the girls have fun. I'm sure you have something in your closet you never get to wear.
    HB: I think I actually do. Sounds fun. Hmm.
    Me: I'll send you some info.

    At this point her body language indicated she was starting to bail to help other customers. I first interpreted this as disinterest but I think she had just noticed that she was off her usual hired-gun auto-pilot. She quickly gave me her card.

    HB: You can email me.
    Me: Email? You're joking. (Wished I could remember this thread)
    HB: No. I don't ever check my phone.
    Me: I don't believe you.
    HB: I'm serious! Ok, text me but I honestly prefer email. Look my number is on there too. My phone's speaker is messed up so I don't get alerts and I'm-
    Me: It's ok, I'll send you details.

    The next few minutes were awkward as I played with my phone & waited for my social-proof Cougar to show up. The HB came back to my table twice but I couldn't think of anything to say so I starred at my coffee & phone. Finally my Cougar friend arrived & we moved to a table outside. Things were very smooth from then on. I engaged the HB & cougar in a few DHV conversations, covered the check & bailed in 20mins.

    Yeah, I need to work on a solid hired-gun & day game. Holy sh1t, that was nerve racking.

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    Default Re: Urgent: D2 ground work laid for HB9 hired gun, coffee tomorrow 8am

    Congrats man! And congrats for getting better at the end and inserting some DHV, people tend to remember more the end of an interaction than the awkward moments

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    Default Re: Urgent: D2 ground work laid for HB9 hired gun, coffee tomorrow 8am

    props man, thats a hectic recovery
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Urgent: D2 ground work laid for HB9 hired gun, coffee tomorrow 8am

    Thanks guys. Now the question: do I text or email details?

    A close wingwoman says forward her an email tomorrow, "Nice to meet you, I'll see you & Cougar friday. Details below."

    FYI, it's a forward so it wont seem like I put a lot of time / thought into it.

    I like her suggestion but, "Nice to meet you" seems so AFC...

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    Default Re: Urgent: D2 ground work laid for HB9 hired gun, coffee tomorrow 8am

    if your going to text her keep it short like that but the beauty about email is it can be abit longer and since you have allready DHV she will more than willing to take intrest in the email. so chuck in a joke aswell if you choose to email. and use more confidence than what you suggested. your going to be in a tie with a cougar and HB9 2 girls one guy make a joke about being a pimp or something. It also shows that you respect her if you use email because you listened to her.

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    Tyrone
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