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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You

    Thanks a lot! Already read Strauss' "The Game." Should I start with do you think it would be a good idea to start with "The Mystery Method"?

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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You

    Hey I wanna talk with Batman cause im a Puerto Rican too and he can understand me better, so how do I do it?

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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You

    Quote Originally Posted by JuniBoy View Post
    Hey I wanna talk with Batman cause im a Puerto Rican too and he can understand me better, so how do I do it?
    look up one of his posts, left click on his name, click "send a private message to Batman" and there you go.

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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You

    OK Experts - request advice

    Can you check out the bottom of my field report? I put a follow up note from my texting with this somewhat difficult girl. Would appreciate input from other guys who know their stuff

    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...9232012-a.html

    (It's long, you really don't have to read the rest of it, just the bottom note)
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    Default i need an expert on approaching women during the day.

    Hi.
    There is a lot of information on this forum. Could someone please give me direction as to where I can start in terms of approaching women during the day.

    I'm a varsity student and most of the women I see are at school. Because of the money I make I can't afford to go out every weekend and so women at school would be my greatest access to approaching the opposite sex.

    Are there any specific articles I could read?
    Any advice on where to start?

    -Animated21

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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You


    Sasha has a lot of good videos for daygame. Also what is "varsity" is that like College/Uni?
    Last edited by Autismus; 11-07-2012 at 04:52 PM. Reason: Manners
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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You

    Thank you for the link. I have saved it and will check it out when I get to a pc. I use my phone mostly for internet.

    Yes, Varsity means University or College. Sorry for the confusion. I'm from South Africa and that's what we refer to it as, down here.

    Are there maybe any articles you know of on this forum I could go straight to?

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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You

    Tried making my own threat but it said something a/b needing make 150 posts first so... here's my question. I know it's long as shit. Sorry, didn't know where else to post.

    Ok, so I met this chick (HB8) at a church function. She was pretty cool. I was able to keep the conversation going, and by the end of the night I gave her phone and she placed her # in it. When I was saying bye to everyone I noticed out of the corner of my eye she was looking to see if I was going to come up to her or not. It is important to know that I am going to be buying something from her for x-mas present for a family member. Of course, she played it off and said yeah, give me a call so I can help you with that. Whatever.

    ok, so here's what I texted the next day (monday) into today (tuesday): I know I screwed up, so I'm asking for both pointers and how I might can regain this convo back.

    (Monday)
    Me:Hey goofball hope you're bringing some smiles to those kids of urs today

    Her: I'm trying

    Me: I'm sure you did. combine your counseling skills with ur caring personlit, lil bit of yr neerdy side, and top it off w/a cute smile and bam, you got it just watch out for the gusy with bpd cuz they might think you like them. btw, how the gangsta pics come out?

    Her: aw, you're sweet!, what's bpd?

    Tuesday
    Me:wow, that's my l8est response yet. i expect better from you the next time. lol thx for comp. i put too much sugar in my tea in the morning so it must have carried over into last night bpd is borderline personality disorder. pretty interesting diangosis, you use dbt to treat. great therapy. Might help you with some of ur kids.

    her: had m y soccer playoffs last night, so i texted you when i finished!

    me: lol, I knew you had a game. I was actually talking about me needing to get better @ texting people back

    her: oh, ok

    me: howd playoffs go

    her:great!!we won!! i scored the first game

    me: awesome. look at you . go a head w/ur bad self. didnt konw I met a star. im gonna have to get an autograph.

    her: my autograph is worth a lot, just sayin...

    me: is it now? lets role play. I know, im way too much fun. pretend ur in front of a news crew and discussing this topic. what 3 qualities would you say, other than your physcial appearance, makes that true?

    I know I wrote a ton, but i wanted you to see what's going through my brain. I know I messed up, and I'm pretty sure I should have turned that last statement into a meeting, which is what I had originally, but... what can I say. I started thinking about it too much. Is there anyway to recover from this, bc she never responded to this last text? idk why my game is off right now, but this whole weekend has been crap.

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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You

    I'm not big on recovery game, so I'm just going to breakdown where you tripped up. You said you knew that you screwed up, but it's important to know how.

    (Monday)
    Me:Hey goofball hope you're bringing some smiles to those kids of urs today

    Her: I'm trying

    Me: I'm sure you did. combine your counseling skills with ur caring personlit, lil bit of yr neerdy side, and top it off w/a cute smile and bam, you got it just watch out for the gusy with bpd cuz they might think you like them. btw, how the gangsta pics come out?

    ^^^You invested way too much here. She gave you two words and you responded with a paragraph. Not only that, but you gave her all the validation that she's looking for. Good job with the follow up quesiton though. Kept the conversation moving forward with solid flow.

    Her: aw, you're sweet!, what's bpd?

    Tuesday
    Me:wow, that's my l8est response yet. i expect better from you the next time. lol thx for comp. i put too much sugar in my tea in the morning so it must have carried over into last night bpd is borderline personality disorder. pretty interesting diangosis, you use dbt to treat. great therapy. Might help you with some of ur kids.

    It's way too early to be busting her chops for getting back to you late. I get that you probably meant to neg, but there's no need to neg when you're high value. Read this.

    her: had m y soccer playoffs last night, so i texted you when i finished!

    me: lol, I knew you had a game. I was actually talking about me needing to get better @ texting people back

    her: oh, ok

    me: howd playoffs go

    her:great!!we won!! i scored the first game

    me: awesome. look at you . go a head w/ur bad self. didnt konw I met a star. im gonna have to get an autograph.

    her: my autograph is worth a lot, just sayin...

    me: is it now? lets role play. I know, im way too much fun. pretend ur in front of a news crew and discussing this topic. what 3 qualities would you say, other than your physcial appearance, makes that true?

    What are your goals with pickup? To run routines? Or become a natural? She's openly asking for your validation here, so I really don't get why you tried to go into...qualification ? Rapport? You have all the concepts down meaning that your game is, in theory, solid. But they're all out of place. There are so many models out there but I stick to the daygame blueprint because it's ridiculously simple: Capture, Attract, Rapport, Seduce.

    She dropped out because what you said sounds canned. I read it to the girl next to me and she said it sounds canned. When she asks for your validation openly it's best to throw her a bone, and like Kino's How to Handle an Insult, take it to the ridiculous, that way the game's still on:

    "Oh, I'm sure. Could you sign a few photos for me and send them my way? I could really use the extra cash "
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    Default Re: Specialist Directory: Find the Expert Right for You

    Cody, I really appreciate the feedback. To answer your first question. I just want to be natural with it. I got to that point before I got married, but... now that I'm going through a divorce it's like trying to learn french again. As you said, capture, attract, close, seduce. I had all that when I fist met this chick and damn I wish I didn't screw this one up, lol. It's the best I've had in the past 3 weeks. What can I say, I've been out of it for a year.

    You're right. I do know the material but it's all out of place. It's like some days I'm on it, and other's I'm not. I think I got in my head way too much with the dhv part. Funny thing is that I typed something very similar to what you said at the end about photographs and channeling into meeting up, but... then I erased it and put that other crap. I guess I got a little scared I'd give her too much value, you know?

    Live and learn I guess. If you come up with or know anyone with any ideas on how I could get this back on track I'm open to it cuz I know she was interested. Maybe not anymore, lol. Thx again Cody.


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