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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    the link we are talking about is called (Bf destroyer advice) its currently up in most recent threads. it is a field report and advice thread of dandyloin using the BF DESTROYER technique.

    it will explain what information you need to get to find out what she lacks in her current relationship, and how to use that information to make you more attractive than there current relationship.

    it will also show you what information about the target that is relavent for us to help you?

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    Cheers, appreciate the advice. Any more criticisms on anything I've done or havn't done is more than welcome.

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    Ok. I've got to cut in here. You don't really need a bf destroyer. If she really is in an open relationship than you are allowed to forget the bf entirely. I'm not saying try to compete with him for attention, cause being the bf means he has priority. All you'll be doing by pulling the bf destroyer is making you look AFC (cause that's at the heart of every bf destroyer technique). Just act confident and work from the frame that you can tie her a great time and you should be solid.

    The best way to get her comfort back up is to meet her in person. There's only so much you can do over text, and building report without kino will really throw off your game when you do meet her. Read over B4UTXTHer (it'll take you a day or two, during which you can pull a mini freeze out and cut communication). Then, using some of those techniques, you open back up and invite her to join you on an activity. Do not make an activity just for her. It has to seem like you are doing something already and you're bringing her along for the ride. If she still isnt comfortable (and I have a sneaking suspicion she is and you're just making things hard on yourself) ask her to something public.

    "hey, some friends and I are going barhopping tonight, you need to call up some of your girls and come with. I know how much girls like you love to party ;-)"
    If you're taking notes that's a preplanned event, using statement instead of a question, and a false disqualified all in one.

    Then the next time around you can invite her to watch a movie at your place or something like that. Then it's full speed ahead.

    Don't forget, you still have to use your normal real world game when you meet her. If you've done things right you should be able to start from either the attraction or comfort stages. Good luck man.
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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    Thanks very much for that reply and link Bandit, very helpful. The thing is, and I know it's sad but I dont have a car so getting her to a public place would be difficult. I dont know if this changes things regarding your response but I have already been sort of intimate with her while she was at my house: cuddled, gave her a massage, kissing my neck, and I gave her an orgasm while her pants were on .

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    You've got her interested for sure...I'd recommend backing off of the "push" a bit, & start using a little "pull" to reel her in.

    Get a little more friendly/flirty but still teasing some... instead of going heavy on the cocky stuff. (At this stage, the need for cocky/push isn't necessary so much.)



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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    You've got her interested for sure...I'd recommend backing off of the "push" a bit, & start using a little "pull" to reel her in.

    Get a little more friendly/flirty but still teasing some... instead of going heavy on the cocky stuff. (At this stage, the need for cocky/push isn't necessary so much.)

    +rep . I'm in the process of sending her the "Stop!" "what?" "Thinking about me and smiling" line. Then maybe going with this if I get a good response.

    "Let me tell you something brutally honest again" (I've used that term brutally honest with her before and she got intrigued in what I was saying)

    Then Ill respond with this

    6 truths in your life:
    1. You can’t lick all your teeth with your tongue.
    2. You’re an idiot, because you just tried to prove truth number one.
    3. Truth one is a lie.
    4. Now you’re smiling, because you’re a goof.
    5. You’ll send it to another idiot in the near future.
    6. You’re still smiling ;-)

    Tell me what you think of that. I forgot where I got that part about the truths but I take no credit, I think it's clever.

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    DUDE - YOU SUCK!!!
    Hahahaha!

    I totally tried the teeth licking thing while I was reading!!!

    Well Played my friend!
    I think it's gold!!



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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    All these texts your sending are good, but all they're doing is holding her interest. Dont get me wrong, it's important to keep her interested in you, but there's a problem. You aren't moving forward. You're just trying to hold her interest for an indefinite amount of time. Why? What is all this interesting building up for? You've got to have a next step to move forward too. Are you going to meet her? Are you going to escalate the sexual stuff and go for sexting or phone sex? What's your end game here man? You always have to know your end game.

    From what I've read already, you want to get in her pants. Not being crude, but you literally want to get in her pants instead of the over-the-pants handy you gave her earlier. That means you have to start laying on the kino and that means meeting in person. I understand the pack of transport is difficult, but thats why we have cabs and busses and friend's cars. At this point, you really need to get personal. Texting is not going to help you any more. You need to escalate.
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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    My last few texts didn't go to well in my favor. I sent the stop smiling and thinking about me line and she responded with a "-___-" face.

    To answer what my end game is, it's to steal her from her boyfriend. She sent me the last text I just froze it out there while I recoup and think of what to do here.

    Concerns:
    1. I don't know where to go from here.
    2. Do I continue trying different openers and see if I can escalate them until she asks to hang out?
    3. Do I try to just stimulate her emotions?
    4. Is she just being flaky, feeling me out still, where is she at if it's possible to tell.

    Thanks again.

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    Her reply was being snarky/playful/sarcastic.

    It wasn't a bomb... it was a success.

    You told her to stop smiling... so she played along!
    Get back in the ring & start jabbing until you get that knockout punch!

    Seriously, she took the bait & bit down hard!

    You're all good my friend!


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