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    Default Need Help (texting advice)

    Little backstory: Shes in an open relationship with a guy who is friends with my brother. She eventually went after me after visiting so many times and started coming over alone. We watched movies and I gave her an orgasm while her pants were on.

    I am just getting into "the game" so mine sucks and I know it but I also know where I messed up. I told her how I actually felt and she said she was sorry she couldn't make me happy.

    Her boyfriend is back from his out of state job for 2 weeks, I was planning on waiting til he left to try and re-open. Then she texts me after about a week.

    She asks me a question if I was doing something with my brother. We start going back and forth with texts, I was asking her how she knew something about what I was doing and if she was a Spy. This is the last parts of the convo and where I need help.

    Me: you must suck at being a spy...
    Her: I do. I got fired
    Me: Aww im sorry, well ill take you under my wing.
    Her: Ok that works. Teach me your ways
    Me: Surprisingly enough I'm free the next couple of days if you want to start training. I'm still not sure you have what it takes though...
    Her: Why not
    Me: Its too risky to tell you over the phone. We would need to meet in secret.
    Her:-_-
    Me: That face right there, thats why i doubt you...
    Her: Lol fine Im not cut out for this
    Me: I never pegegd you as a quitter. I guess you aren't as adventerous as I thought you were :\
    Her: Lol I am too!
    Me: I can tell im getting to you now. I can see right through you.
    Her: You think so


    Where should I go from here? How long should I wait for a response if I dont get one? How bad of a state am I?

    Appreciate the help in advance.
    Last edited by joshqwertyuiop; 07-25-2012 at 07:11 PM. Reason: Edits: Just adding texts as they come

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    okay next text: prove it! (with a wink emoticon)

    your texting is good, you need to work out her body language and feelings better before you announce your's. since she has rejected you i suggest you talk to other girls where she can see it, and act unavailable.

    SHe should chase if you become an object of desire.

    Hope i helped

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    Thanks I appreciate the reply.

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    joshqwertyuiop,

    You have alright texting game, better than most guys, and really you're fine, as long as you don't turn into an AFC, or single her out as the best girl in the universe, haha .

    Apart from that, it's obvious that she's attracted to you, so maybe use a modified version of the BF destroyer technique, and you could seduce her very quickly and expeditiously.

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    SO WE ALL HAVE ESTABLISHED YOUR TEXTING GAME IS HECTIC, now just work on everything else, dandyloin is right BF DESTROYER is a great technique, find out the flaws in her man and use the comments suggested. they are really really well made.

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    Okay so the convo didnt end as badly as I thought it was going to. I told her I was going for a walk since all my friends were busy.

    What should I avoid saying ? How do I get her back to being comfortable enough to come over again? Any insight is very much appreciated.

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    look at the thread BF DETROYER advice, Dandylion and I have established all the question and answers you need to preform to get her. feel free to comment on it so we can all topic in the same discussion, all my advice on there is valid to this situation just dandylion is one step ahead because he has allready planted the seed, so have a look and then come back to me.

    Feel free to ask anything, no questions are too silly, where all here to help and dandlion has got the BF destroyer locked down.

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    joshqwertyuiop,

    As Tyrone1991 said, check out my post, I'm sure you'll find it useful.

    Don't hesitate to ask us questions, as we are all here to help!

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    I read over the BF Destroyer guide many times and found it helpful. Ive already sent a few texts with an emphasis on how much I bet her boyfriend misses her.

    She said something like: "Well I am the shit"
    I responded with: "Thats a little cocky.."
    Her: "And?" "Don't you agree?" (These were a back-back text which she has done twice so far tonight.)
    Me: "Your fiance's opinion should be the only one that matters "
    Her: "Ok no need to be mean"
    Me: "I didnt intend for it to be taken hurtfully. You know I think you're awesome.

    Before this she asked If i had skype on my computer and phone as well.
    My question is still, where do I go from here? Do i just keep plugging away throwing out hooks and what not?

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    Default Re: Need Help (texting advice)

    Quote Originally Posted by joshqwertyuiop View Post
    I read over the BF Destroyer guide many times and found it helpful. Ive already sent a few texts with an emphasis on how much I bet her boyfriend misses her.

    She said something like: "Well I am the sh1t"
    I responded with: "Thats a little cocky.."
    Her: "And?" "Don't you agree?" (These were a back-back text which she has done twice so far tonight.)
    Me: "Your fiance's opinion should be the only one that matters "
    Her: "Ok no need to be mean"
    Me: "I didnt intend for it to be taken hurtfully. You know I think you're awesome.

    Before this she asked If i had skype on my computer and phone as well.
    My question is still, where do I go from here? Do i just keep plugging away throwing out hooks and what not?
    The more you write about this girl it reminds me of my ex, and how she just led me on like a cat with a piece of yarn, time after time after time.

    Yeah, it's true, people will come back to you after they haven't seen you for awhile, but in order to cultivate and capture this interest, you need to really learn Cat String Theory, and really make grandiose amounts of rapport.

    Regards,

    DandyLion


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