Hello PUA Forum,
Recently I've started to feel like I'm erring in the direction of not showing enough interest. I'm realizing that if I don't send out enough IOIs these gals are going to lose interest and move along. Thankfully I've gotten past #-closing, and I'm working to build more attraction and comfort during the initial approach.
This is more about the process of setting up D2, D3 & D4. I guess it is also phone and text game. I'm working to find enough balance between "too much interest" (creepy/needy) and "not enough interest" (He's Just Not That Into You). Have other people discussed this "not enough interest" issue?
My wing PUA Oman loves to text back and forth with the gals that he's met to continue to build attraction and comfort. I've gotten into the habit of only using the phone (text and call) to set up D2s. I'm an avid texter, so this feels very unnatural for me. Normally I text with my friends from when I wake up until whenever I fall asleep depending on what's happening with my day. Should I try to be more congruent with my natural style? I'm feeling that texting her all day comes across as DLV, beta and needy.
Last weekend I was reading about the so-called "3-day rule." I think that my favorite entry is the one from Urban Dictionary mocking the concept. On Monday I #-closed a couple of gals and started texting with the very next day. That being said, today is three-days out, and I still haven't called or established a day 2 with any of them. I wish that I could provide some better questions, but I'm really hoping to move my game from #-closes (I don't need any more #s) to D2s, D3s and D4s.