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    DonJuan69 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Overshot the mark on email - how can I recover this?

    Been reading this site for a while and picked up some useful tips. So thought I would join and see if I can get a hand (and hopefully give some advice when I've got my game solid)!

    So I've been email gaming a HB8 who works for same company but different office. Only joined company a week ago and had some good convos/few IOIs in person with her when she has been about. No number opportunity as too busy office.

    Was teasing her back and forth via email but she misinterpreted a sarcastic comment (one of the reasons I don't like text/email).

    She got a little bit annoyed and sadly I then went a bit AFC! I said was joking, she "forgave" me. So I sent back a jokey msg which she didn't reply to. Send another, which I shouldn't have done as it just looks needy and now she's acting a bit cold.

    How do I recover? Any thoughts?

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    Default Re: Overshot the mark on email - how can I recover this?

    I'd go with some off the wall humor.

    "Hey, where's your sense of humor? (Or at least the ability to catch my intended context...) Although I do understand; My extreme intellect & super genius mind even confuses ME at times! haaha!!

    BTW, do you like ducks? I like ducks.... and the little toys in boxes of cereal....

    **special report**
    We interrupt this email to bring you some breaking news: The author of this email has no idea where this message is headed since making a wrong turn a moment ago.

    Every attempt is being made to correct this fiasco, and put an end to his shenanigans..."


    Or something to that effect.
    Basically make a quick comment about the misunderstand, but in a nonchalant way... then shift focus to the ridiculous & obscure!!



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    DonJuan69 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Overshot the mark on email - how can I recover this?

    Thanks - useful advice.

    Not sure it's best here though - I've already tried to joke away the misunderstanding.

    Don't really want to go back to my AFC error - like the random opener idea though!


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