Please bear with me on this as I've recently been theoizing this possible situation that could possibly end up working..
So, I got an HB8 number close and we flirted a little, showed interest but we sort of just fell out (more her pulling away from me). I didn't want to creep her out so I haven't texted her in a week and I want to try anything to rekindle whatever flame was initially there.
Here's my theory:
What if I were to text her and ask her to do something outrageous, cool, and spontaneous with me. For example (and this is a HUGE exaggeration):
ME : Hey ______, me and some friends got comped a suite in Vegas and are headed up tonight to go clubbing, you're coming!!
Now, before I get any text back from her I already know there is a 99% chance she will not come either due to working or just not down to drive/fly to Vegas for the night and I already knew this going into it. BUT, when she responds back with something along the lines of "Sounds fun, but I can't" or "Sorry, I have work"...doesn't this set you up for a perfect, playful neg such as, "Wow, thought you were adventurous..." or something like that.
Idk if I'm explaining this clearly and it may be setting yourself up for an epic failure at ever seducing the girl but I feel like it would DHV for yourself showing her you're a spontaneous, adventurous guy?
What is an experts thought on this strategy?
Thanks again everyone!