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    Default What's your take on this "weird" theory

    Please bear with me on this as I've recently been theoizing this possible situation that could possibly end up working..

    So, I got an HB8 number close and we flirted a little, showed interest but we sort of just fell out (more her pulling away from me). I didn't want to creep her out so I haven't texted her in a week and I want to try anything to rekindle whatever flame was initially there.

    Here's my theory:

    What if I were to text her and ask her to do something outrageous, cool, and spontaneous with me. For example (and this is a HUGE exaggeration):

    ME : Hey ______, me and some friends got comped a suite in Vegas and are headed up tonight to go clubbing, you're coming!!

    Now, before I get any text back from her I already know there is a 99% chance she will not come either due to working or just not down to drive/fly to Vegas for the night and I already knew this going into it. BUT, when she responds back with something along the lines of "Sounds fun, but I can't" or "Sorry, I have work"...doesn't this set you up for a perfect, playful neg such as, "Wow, thought you were adventurous..." or something like that.

    Idk if I'm explaining this clearly and it may be setting yourself up for an epic failure at ever seducing the girl but I feel like it would DHV for yourself showing her you're a spontaneous, adventurous guy?

    What is an experts thought on this strategy?

    Thanks again everyone!

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    Default Re: What's your take on this "weird" theory

    You're definitely on the right track...

    But, before going in with the "kill shot" so to speak, Just send something to get her to start responding. Something less "heavy".

    Dropping a major offer like that from out of nowhere, might creep her out & could cause you to look a little needy, or over-eager.

    Basically you want to go light, friendly, flirty, slightly quirky, silly & even a bit random.

    I actually just posted a new texting/messaging guide I was working on for the last week or so.

    I list a bunch of examples of how to re-initiate contact and the type of message you'd want to send.



    But, no.. don't drop a bomb on here about vegas just yet.
    LOL!


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    Default Re: What's your take on this "weird" theory

    Thanks for the reply and I'll check out the thread....you saved me from making a big mistake hahahah thanks

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    Default Re: What's your take on this "weird" theory

    My wing & I have mostly unsuccessful experience with patterns that lead to:
    "Oh, I thought you were spontaneous/adventurous" UNLESS those spontaneity / adventure or teasing has already been established in person.

    Leading a girl down an obvious (in-hindsight) path to a comment like this is more than a simple neg, it's a premeditated & impossible challenge. Common responses include:

    "I don't need your teasing"
    "Hey, you tricked me"
    "That's not fair, I barely know you"

    Tough recovery after that, in my exp.


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