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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    Quote Originally Posted by flyba View Post
    Thanks Man. That i what I was thinking of doing .. it sounds a bit mean though .. I may do without the sex. I can have that on Monday with another girl I have bee chatting with. I think I will end it prior to her leaving .... I just need to get it right in my head which I am doing. Any tips on getting the inner game right ? I have trying out some affirmations ... is this a good way ?

    By the way thank you all for your great comments.. this has been very helpful.. cheers.
    Yes, but the affirmations have to be positive and can't contain negative words. So make them like "I see myself as an absolute 10" rather than "I am not unattractive". The latter contains 2 negative words.

    Two good threads for your inner game: Thread one and thread two. You will gain confidence from knowing what women want in a man and you'll find that it's the opposite of what you did previously: being needy.

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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    Thanks. I am familiar with the principles of affirmations. I have been using 'I have a high self worth' for just a couple of days and already I feel the benefit ... I will try those threads ...thanks..

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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    Hey All,
    Dropped her off at the airport this evening for an early flight tomorrow ... didn't dump her..had sex twice ... didn't feel right to dump her...

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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    Quote Originally Posted by flyba View Post
    Hey All,
    Dropped her off at the airport this evening for an early flight tomorrow ... didn't dump her..had sex twice ... didn't feel right to dump her...
    U didn't dump her cuz she had sex with you?
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    No .. I just decided not to dump her ..and I had great sex ..I feel a bit bad as I am meeting another girl in two hours. My girlfriend calls me a player all the time .. and I don't like that ... but now while she is away I have an opportunity to be a player .. so I am going to take it ...since my girlfriend has been going cool on me ( about a month now)... I have been going out on my own .. and I met this other girl two weeks ago.. I prefer my girlfriend... I am reluctant to just dump my GF and be on my own so maybe this way is better ...

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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    hahahaha @ Xavier
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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    My initial response was to say if you have to ask you probably should. But that is kind of selfish and doesn't offer any help.

    If you can change back into being the dominant one in the relationship without going to the polar extreme, being needy is a huge turn off for women. Even though women showing affection to a man is a huge impact on making a relationship healthy, being needy stops that aspect.

    Change your beta behavior and try. But I normally end the relationship, it is soul crushing when a woman has to, because of your behavior. You know its not working, why stress it. Put it in the past and move on.

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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    OK so here is the situation as it stands.. We are not broken up fully but she pays me less attention thank before...but she still tells me she loves me and we do have sex ..I would like to hang on to her for a while as she is very hot and its great to have someone .... but she is very distant a lot of the time ..
    What do I do ?

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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    Quote Originally Posted by flyba View Post
    OK so here is the situation as it stands.. We are not broken up fully but she pays me less attention thank before...but she still tells me she loves me and we do have sex ..I would like to hang on to her for a while as she is very hot and its great to have someone .... but she is very distant a lot of the time ..
    What do I do ?
    Talk to her about it. There's no shame in talking about u're problemes with her if still things don't change then dump her.
    u don't want to dump her cuz u're afraid to be alone, cuz she's hot and u think u might not get an equally if not hotter girl for a while if ever, cuz she's willing to sleep with u. Get over urself !!
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    Default Re: Should I break up with her ...

    not sure what you mean by 'Get over yourself' ... I have a reasonable problem... I wanna keep my girl and avoid being dumped ... what is your problem ? If you are going to give advice just give it ..telling someone to get over themselves is frankly quite stupid...


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