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    Default Need to think of a 3rd Date

    Guys need to think of a third date with a girl. I live with parents have a car, she lives either with room-mates of by self. First date was coffee, 2nd was party at pub. Her friends like me, and some good kino. First two were no probelm, but for some reason blanking out as to ideas for 3rd. I knwo this is where as they say some magic should happen Some suggestions I thought were ok:


    Drive out with her to a nice view somewhere in the evening/night 50's style (but how to bring it up?)
    Watch a movie at her place (but how to arrange? I've not been there yet)
    Lounge around in a park or beach

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    Default Re: Need to think of a 3rd Date

    I'd go with watching a movie at her place if you want to go for the lay. Lounging in a park or beach gets her in a whole different mood. Driving out for a nice view seems cheesy to me but women could have a whole different opinion on that.

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    Default Re: Need to think of a 3rd Date

    Thanks Virgil,
    She's talked about movies she likes to see which are out in theatres, but I don't want to take her to theatre for a third date. I like the idea of brining a movie to her places, maybe some food/drink too, but as I say finding it challenging to word.

    "I really want to you see this movie... lets watch it at your house" - does that seem more or less reasonable?

    In general I've only been invited over before to a girl's house, not tried to arrange it that way for logistical reasons.

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    Default Re: Need to think of a 3rd Date

    Have you been over her place at all yet? I would think of a way to make her comfortable with your presence there.

    Offer to cook before or bring take out over heading out to watch the sun set at a park or for a drink. So then when you take her back home, she comfortable with you there to get it on.

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    Default Re: Need to think of a 3rd Date

    Quote Originally Posted by chet25 View Post
    Have you been over her place at all yet? I would think of a way to make her comfortable with your presence there.

    Offer to cook before or bring take out over heading out to watch the sun set at a park or for a drink. So then when you take her back home, she comfortable with you there to get it on.
    Thanks chet25 - that's a good idea. I haven't been there, just dropped her off outside. I will work on that, thanks again. Cheers.

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    Default Re: Need to think of a 3rd Date

    Just an update for anyone interested, she lives with a family friend, and this is definitely a wrench in the privacy gear. I've read some stories about room mates making a girl nervous (although I would much prefer this over family), and I know I'm uncomfortable bringing girls over with my family. I've done it before, and it wasn't so great. Would it be weird to watch a movie on a laptop somewhere in a park? Dang I need to get my own place.


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