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Thread: How to deal with excessive flaking?

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    Default How to deal with excessive flaking?

    I started off in pick-up as a very shy guy with lots of approach anxiety and very little success with picking up women but gradually over time have built up to a good level of confidence so I'm now at the point where I'm able to power past the AA and approach women. I find that I need to approach quite a few women in order to get a number because most of the woman I approach either have boyfriends or are married (or at least that's what they tell me....maybe my flirting skills are not that strong).

    The problem is that after doing all the work in approaching lots of women and getting a number or two, I've been getting a lot of flaking in that the women will return a text or two and then disappear. Or they will answer my first phone call and then won't answer calls after that.

    How do you guys deal with the flaking? I could end up getting 100 phone numbers but at the rate I'm going, they won't amount to s**t!

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    Default Re: How to deal with excessive flaking?

    Your not making yourself memorable enough. Dealt with this myself quite a bit starting out. Attraction can fade fast after the first interaction.

    This post can make help on the process.

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...d-comfort.html

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    Default Re: How to deal with excessive flaking?

    I got a routine from DJ fuji that seems legit:
    Talk about something you will be doing - an event you are going to or something
    if she is attracted, she will give a very positive response. if she is unattracted, she will say something like "oh cool" which is more of a neutral response
    if positive interest is shown, invite her and ask "what is the best way to get hold of you?"
    Let her suggest "phone number". This gives her options in case she doesn't really want you to phone her. If she suggests phone number and gives it to you, you know she wanted you to have it and will respond.

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    Default Re: How to deal with excessive flaking?

    Quote Originally Posted by stevesheels View Post
    I started off in pick-up as a very shy guy with lots of approach anxiety and very little success with picking up women but gradually over time have built up to a good level of confidence so I'm now at the point where I'm able to power past the AA and approach women. I find that I need to approach quite a few women in order to get a number because most of the woman I approach either have boyfriends or are married (or at least that's what they tell me....maybe my flirting skills are not that strong).

    The problem is that after doing all the work in approaching lots of women and getting a number or two, I've been getting a lot of flaking in that the women will return a text or two and then disappear. Or they will answer my first phone call and then won't answer calls after that.

    How do you guys deal with the flaking? I could end up getting 100 phone numbers but at the rate I'm going, they won't amount to s**t!
    I rarely ask girls for their phone number, because I want a SNL or nothing. SO girls usually give me their number, or when I get one its high quality. But I see lots of guys always pushing girls for their number. Which is going to give them low quality and high flake rates.

    First, The quality of the numbers is going to change your flake rate. So you going to have to improve your initial game to increase the quality ( level of interest) of the numbers your getting.

    Second, jump over to the text game section of the forums and start posting some info. Bit of background how you met the girls, their style, character, etc., and the text conversations. From there we can see if what your doing is good or bad and help you best we can. I love text game, and willing to help all the guys there.
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