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    Post This is my history until now (I am 22)...

    first, sorry for my bad english.
    hope you all understand and try to help me.
    with 10, yes, 10 years old I had my first girl friend for 3 months, it was just a child play.
    first girlfriend... and the LAST.
    I become the most shame man at these things.
    now, 12 years later (today), my life is only play video games and go to college (dont have a job, I'm TRYING to get).
    I'm falling in love for a girl, and it started 6 years ago...
    it was love at first saw, and it was in a church. about one year just seeing her, never aproach.
    one word: Shame.
    and this year passed so when I tried to talk to her. he answer very fast and leave me like nothing.
    yes, she knew I was interested in her...
    in this time I suffered a great loss that I can't say here. but never stop thinking about her
    more one year, tried again. and the same thing...
    but one miraculous day we talked a lot, and started to became friends...
    in this time I was a lot nervous and asked to a great friend come to the church and help me.
    my friend got her contacts and they become good, good friends.
    but he is a player (now I know this term) so I think he tried to get her.
    months later this girl and me still talking normal, but she always forget me, only when we meet she remember -.-
    and my friend beeing more friendly, going out with her
    later I waas revolted with the church, don't accepted their doctrines and leave. this was the unique place we meet.
    the contact of us gone to the junk, we met very very low and fast.
    these times my friend still going out with her, saying he never saw her with anyone.
    but time has passed and my friend started to talk BAD of her, and I always defending.

    I don't know why, but I wanted to see the truth.
    was she falling in love to him? its okay, I'd never get angry because of it.
    I got ways to see whats happening. can't tell, but you can supose.
    so what I saw was:
    - she asks a lot him to go out;
    - she pokes him (lol);
    - he talk false things for me.
    this time I discovered the Pandora's Box.
    her type I think is Hopefull romantic (NDI)
    so I decided to show all the truths, when I asked him if he THINKS she like him, he gone angry and crazy.
    saying things like: you crazy, psycothic etc
    and 30 minutes later I saw him acting as victim to girls I never even met, saying things like:
    "remember the girl I said likes me? my friend that falls in love to her saw something and yelled to me!! (GREAT LIE)
    my life is hard!!! "
    later I called him and show these things, he opened and said everything (that HE THINKS she like him)
    I decided this day to stop talk with these 2.
    but I couldnt. I wanted to tell her the truth.
    called her and said "I want to tell you something, I promisse I never talk to you again if you want"
    she was scared to hear it from me, and come to my house.
    I said EVERYTHING. when I said that he thinks she loves him, she normaly said "its wrong, he's only my friend."
    "I and my friends even think he's gay" (lol)
    and I sugested we stop talking with each other, she said "no no, we are friends" (but talking was very rare anyway)
    we talked for 3 hours, and I really discovered that everything I felt was true, the woman I ever imagined her to be
    and desired. she saids I have to go out more and get a work to forget about it. she said I'm sincere.
    great eye contact (thing I never did before) and she said "I'm ashamed"
    hold her hand and she hug me...
    called her days later, we talked 20 minutes.
    called another day, and she was acting like she don't want to talk to me
    so... its 3 months now of nothing.
    and she is still her friend and going out! (hope he is just her gay friend)
    and I still love her, I can't forget her even if we had nothing!
    sincerely, can you guys help me? I have mental problems is it? I act like a child, just playing video games,
    never meeting other girls, never going out? this case have solution?
    according the pandoras box her type is NDI, I'm almost certain of it
    please, I accept all tips, be sincere please please!
    I'm new in these things of pua, BUT I LOVE HER!

    sorry if this post is against the rules... you can delete if you want

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    Default Re: This is my history until now...

    I can't forget her even if we had nothing!
    sincerely, can you guys help me? I have mental problems is it? I act like a child, just playing video games,
    never meeting other girls, never going out? this case have solution?
    First off, Welcome to the Forums!
    Secondly, by posting this thread you are a step closer to succeeding with girls, making friends and socialize, and YES it has a Solution if you are Motivated.
    Thirdly, I can't tell you if you have a chance or not with this girl, unless you actually approach, but for now lets just forget her. (Its easy to forget her, just think that she rejected you, even if she didn't yet)

    Most of the times, its not really 'love at first sight', its more like a crush, and since you don't socialize that much, she is one of the few girls you met which is attractive to you?
    So start off by STOP playing video games immediately. Instead of wasting your time playing, do something useful, like reading PUA Books, apply for jobs, start socializing a little (example: go to the library, shopping etc)

    Also, try asking your friend or any other few friends you might have, to go out in weekends. Just go to clubs / bars or somewhere where people go, and start talking to people without any intention of pickup up girls,(you only want to build a bigger social circle for now) [remember when you started school? you knew nobody, but you just went to the first person and tried to make a new friend] and that's what you should do now aswell..

    After having a good enough social circle, you should go out, have fun and actually try to pickup other girls which you find attractive, You will not even remember this girl after some successful attempts with other girls.

    Hope i helped a little.
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: This is my history until now...

    okay I'm trying, thanks for the help
    for now I've done one of the all things you said: GOT A JOB! lol
    if more experts wanna help me, please read my history and post a reply
    thanks!

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    Default Re: This is my history until now...

    I say ditch your friend, he doesnt sound like a good one at all. new future equals new friends, if she asked why you are no longer friends anymore, just say your changing your life and he cant be a part of it, it may get her worried too by thinking if he goes then will I?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: This is my history until now...

    thanks for helping me
    Tyrone1991: I dont understand well, if she asks if we (me and him) are not friends anymore or me and her?

    its 4 full months now we dont talk (me and her)
    and 8 with the gay friend, that is not my friend and I never wanna see again.

    I think she doesnt care for what I do or how I'm... I think...

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    Default Re: This is my history until now...

    its been a long time, guys. thanks for the help until now
    you guys really made me change the way to think about this.
    remember when I said I got a job?!
    now I'm thinking about another girl I met there...

    I don't know much about her. sometimes she comes to the same
    department I'm to use a PC. sometimes we get alone and when it
    happens, I try to start a conversation.
    I just know her name and her age, and we sometimes talk about how
    boring is the company (lol)
    I can be wrong, but I think she is a hopefull romantic (NDI) too.

    so I'm here to ask for you guys again for help.
    should I keep things slow like this? if not, some expert could help
    me in what shoul I ask her. sometimes I get nervous and uncertain
    in what to say. and if someone want me tell more things to try
    help me, just ask! and thanks again. I'm getting hopes for my future
    again!

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    Default Re: This is my history until now...

    okay brother... now for the greatest reality check of your life,

    you have a new job

    you lost all the bad baggage (bad firneds)

    its time to start recognising your values. look how much better you are, Knowing your values is a very important actually neccessary part of pua, its called (inner game) and you my friend just found yours, find and recognise all your strengths. this will help for the next phase of pick up, once you have listed them, we go from there.

    good luck brother
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    as for the girl, start looking at alpha male body language so when she is around she will notice you, Look it up like chest out, back straight, strong voice
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: This is my history until now...

    oh my god... we talked a lot and...
    she has a boyfriend........... ............
    and talks a lot about him in conversation
    now she is this way, I think was because now I really asked her
    a lot of things (about the familly, future, career etc) when we got alone and she perceived the danger.
    I really have to stop creating hope with the first attraction I have, right? lol
    I think I'm still doing the things wrong...

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    Default Re: This is my history until now...

    Mate it happens, there is a bf destroyer technique if you want to go there, I've used it 3 times and it has worked every time so I vouch for xavier bf destroyer. It's on the forum so either look him up or bf destroyer technique.

    Or you can move to the next girl because it sounds like your in friend zone
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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