Approach Anienxty is part of our DNA as men and I believe that whether your an AFC or an MPUA I don't think it ever really leaves us.
For me I try and use this to force me into "The Zone" where my inhibitions are dropped and all that's left is the real me!Whenever I feel AA I ask myself what do I fear more? rejection? or going home without any K/F Closes? because I was too much of a pussy to say "Hi" to a girl.
The last few times I have gone out to pick up my performance has dipped and it made me wonder is everyones pickup like a sportsmans form, as in it comes and goes with peaks in between?
I realise if I try to hard women can see this and it appears desperate and I fail to even approach the next girl/set let alone number close, but I wanted to learn why because I like to disect my days perfomrance and analise what I did wrong and at what point did the game changer occur so tht I can learn from the experience and be more prepared and more succesful next time.
I understood that a lot of the women I meet know that they may never see me again and I also realised they recognised I knew this too, so whenever I TRIED to hard and appeared to eager to qualify myself to them it was a turn off. Yet if I negged and stuck to my CANED game script I appeared more mysterious to them and it made them think "Wow I may never see this guy aagain" and it would make them want to maximise every minute with me.
So the moral of this is I guess to never appear more than you are, don't fear failure or regret what you may be leaving behind but look forward to what you might find.
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