Looking for feedback on these points:
How far in advance can you start making weekend plans? It seems like people in my city don't like to plan anything definitive for Fri/Sat until at the soonest Wed/Thurs. I'm a busy guy with a full social, work and volunteer schedule, so it's frustrating to wait until Wednesday to start putting together my weekend plans. A couple of times nothing has come together because it's all too last minute to get the details in a row.
How do you negotiate inviting multiple HBs to the same event? I don't have that much free time on the weekends. I'm working swing shift many Fridays and Saturdays. I've extend the same invitation to HB Neon and HB Target. The voice mails were intentionally vague about where to meet so that I can just make plans with whoever gets back to me first. If HB Target say let's do (Friday), I'll tell HB Neon that (Friday) doesn't work anymore "How about (Saturday)?"
After getting HB Target's number at the Monday salsa social, I number-closed another girl. I don't think that she noticed, but it felt like it was in very bad form. Rather than following her like a puppy dog, I made sure to dance with other girls and be a social butterfly between talking with her. That felt fine and seemed to build her interest in me. #-closing another gal with her still there. That didn't feel right. Any thoughts?