I have found holding back particular information about yourself difficult when meeting new women, specially when asked a direct question such as, 'What do you do for work?' I should explain further. I work as a police officer, and for obvious reasons, i do not like telling people what i do for a living straight away. Noone wants to go around the club telling everyone that, if i feel comfortable with my target i will disclose it as clearly it can display a huge amount of DHV. I dont particularly like making a career up, and if the interaction lasts longer than the night i run into obvious problems. Ive decided instead, i need a way to hold off on telling the target or a set what i do, prehaps there is a way this can be done which shows mystery and intrigues the target?
This got me thinking, there must be others who have come across similar barriers and have other information, careers, facts etc, that they want to hold close to their chest.
Does anyone have any ideas how to get around this?
(I just want to point out i am not ashamed or embarressed about what i do, i just have to be carefull sometimes)