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    Default How to avoid disclosing information about yourself while talking to women

    Hi,

    I have found holding back particular information about yourself difficult when meeting new women, specially when asked a direct question such as, 'What do you do for work?' I should explain further. I work as a police officer, and for obvious reasons, i do not like telling people what i do for a living straight away. Noone wants to go around the club telling everyone that, if i feel comfortable with my target i will disclose it as clearly it can display a huge amount of DHV. I dont particularly like making a career up, and if the interaction lasts longer than the night i run into obvious problems. Ive decided instead, i need a way to hold off on telling the target or a set what i do, prehaps there is a way this can be done which shows mystery and intrigues the target?

    This got me thinking, there must be others who have come across similar barriers and have other information, careers, facts etc, that they want to hold close to their chest.

    Does anyone have any ideas how to get around this?

    (I just want to point out i am not ashamed or embarressed about what i do, i just have to be carefull sometimes)

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    Default Re: How to avoid disclosing information about yourself while talking to wom

    what i like to do when a HB asks what i do for a living is asking her "which one sounds more impressive, Doctor or lawyer?" they smile and say whatever, i then go with "no, im goin with Lawyer. Im a lawyer!" I get the biggest smiles from that, and then move on to a different topic.

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    Default Re: How to avoid disclosing information about yourself while talking to wom

    I usually do something similar to what bluebomber said. I'll smile & give her a playful wink, then say something like, "Yep. I work" Or
    "Oh yeah, I'm a professional.."
    You need to work on your pickup lines...
    I'm a freelance mortician...
    For safety reasons, I'm unable to discuss that info on Friday nights. (or whatever night is happens to be)
    Hang on there little missy. Are you trying to find out how much money I make??

    Whatever I end up spitting out is usually going to be on the humorous side. Then I'll redirect the conversation to something else.

    If she persists in asking what I do, I'll tell her. Then I'll also add that I was being funny before, because "I don't want to sound like I'm bragging, but I'm a blah blah blah & have been working there for a long time"...

    I try not to let it become a big deal, & then focus on flirting some more.


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    Default Re: How to avoid disclosing information about yourself while talking to wom

    Thanks Guys,

    I think i can have some fun with that, Ill give it a try and see how it goes. I can mix it up from Doctor and Lawyer etc. Perhaps which job do you think is more impressive/important/sexier etc, who do you think are better lovers, firemen or police...
    Then she wont know if i am joking or telling the truth.

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    Default Re: How to avoid disclosing information about yourself while talking to wom

    Playful is best. Acting like a 4th grader is what makes girls laugh.

    I like saying I'm a cigarette lighter repairman or I run an everyday circus.

    Or I want to be an astronaut, firefighter or policeman...etc when I grow up. Turn it into a joke but communicate you have ambition.


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