So here's the deal. Ive been casually dating this girl and she took me to this pool party at her friends house. She goes to her friend's house every year for this party. It was a good night until towards the end I found out that last year(when she was single) some guy made a fool out of her and shoved her into the pool. He also shoved a bunch of other girls in too. I was kind of disturbed to hear of this becuase I think shoving a woman into the pool is a disrespectful thing to do. So I got kinda pissed but I kept quiet. So low and behold this jackass shows up again and acts drunk and beligerent. He tried to get mouthy with me and I was tempted to put him on his ass being I am much bigger, younger and stronger. He knew to leave me alone.
So later that night he came over to a group of us and told us he said how he wanted to shove the birthday girl in the pool. My girl heard this and didnt even tell him not to do that to her friend. She told me she didnt like having that done to her, but she certainly had no problem seeing that happen to her good friend. My question is should I have whipped the guy's ass or told him off? My second question is why do you think my girl would want to see a mean prank play on her friend?...it doesnt make sense. How does a good PUA deal with a drunk arrogant jerk, becuase I understand fighting is socially awkward. Am I wrong for even getting pissed? Thanks guys