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Thread: Is there a different approach to 'pick-up' for older vs. younger women?

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    Default Is there a different approach to 'pick-up' for older vs. younger women?

    Hi,

    As I am reading this forum and other information on 'pick-up', etc. to develop in my skills, one question has started to arise:

    "Do the techniques and/or is the approach different for older vs. younger women?"

    I define younder women her as 'late teems to early/mid 20's' and older women as 'late 20's to mid/late 30's'.

    As an simple example of what I am referring to: Some posters suggest giving a women you are trying to pick-up a nickname or call them names (jokingly) in email/txt/IM, etc., like 'loser', 'dork', etc.

    I feel that you would get away with this approach for a younger women but not an older women!?

    A discussion on this would topic or opinions/experience would be valued.

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    Default Re: Is there a different approach to 'pick-up' for older vs. younger women?

    PSAM_RST,

    Personally, I'm not into nicknames, because I feel like when I'm using them they're always so fake and i don't really mean them. I'm more of a serious person, so a lot of the PUA community has truly been a challenge to me.

    With that said, I think you should be able to talk to the least attractive girl in the room the exact same way you would talk to the most attractive girl in the room.

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    Default Re: Is there a different approach to 'pick-up' for older vs. younger women?

    Older women deserve and will be more responsive to a more direct approach. Cut the bullsh*t. They know what you're up to and they're okay with it. They want it too. Be straight forward and mature in your game.

    If you don't want to give her a nickname, don't give her a nickname.
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    Default Re: Is there a different approach to 'pick-up' for older vs. younger women?

    I agree with Cody that older women will tend to cut to the chase more quickly, but don't think that doesn't mean you don't need a good opener.

    I've used Nicknames, for both older and younger, I just try and make sure they are relevant. I didnt start using them until I had really strong rapport.

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    Default Re: Is there a different approach to 'pick-up' for older vs. younger women?

    Older women love to flirt and have fun, just neg them in a fun way. they love it.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Is there a different approach to 'pick-up' for older vs. younger women?

    I've seen it go both ways. If an older woman shows some obvious interest in you, then being direct is pretty effective.

    however, in my experience, they also like being wooed/seduced/whatever and thus play the game with you even though they pretty much know what's going on. Almost like they're role-playing their early 20's


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