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    Post At a club AA has returned... Help:(

    Christ I've been studying pickup for like 3 months and have only made 2 approaches... Help
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    Default Re: At a club AA has returned... Help:(

    Start with baby steps

    Make it a goal to compliment 5 girls tomorrow, at least 3 of which have to be strangers. Just something simple, nice shoes, whatever

    After that every day as you go through your day make it your priority to say hi to 5 strangers a day (guys and girls) and talk about something, whatever, weather, a new bar, local attractions, the Olympics (easy topic right now)

    Your only goal has to be to bring something up. Doesn't matter if the conversation stops after that

    You will learn its not so scary.

    There are many other great excercises, just start with these for the next few days. There's no pressure, no risk of failure because you aren't picking up your just being friendly, and it will make it much easier

    Good luck, please keep us posted
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    Default Re: At a club AA has returned... Help:(

    Go in..without expecting to much. Just say hi, the truth about girls is that they just want a guy to say something! If you get reject...is not big deal! Don't be afraid of rejection...since girls will pick up, when a guy doesn't give a shit! That is the reason bad boys get laid more often that an AFC!

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    Default Re: At a club AA has returned... Help:(

    Stop thinking in your approaching girls. Go in with the mindset your having fun and your going to involve people in your fun. When you start expecting yourself to approach women it will give you AA, don't have those expectations, lower them.

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    Default Re: At a club AA has returned... Help:(

    I totally agree with "chet25" just go for it...if it works cool..if not, you will learn something! It takes practice to master a skill!

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    Default Re: At a club AA has returned... Help:(

    I think you get AA because you waited more than 3 seconds to approach. - if when you see a girl you like, you just say a simple 'hi', AA wont have a chance of happening ..

    just remember, whats the worst that can happen? she rejects, so what?

    when i approach a girl and she rejects me, and when i move away i see other guys which are staring at her but no talk, i will feel even better, because
    1) i won't hate myself the next day for not knowing if i had a chance or not..
    2) i had the balls which almost all guys didn't in that club
    3) when you get rejected, you learn!
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: At a club AA has returned... Help:(

    Exactly just go for it...only guys that are trying get rejected from time to time! Guys that don't have the balls to approach girls...envy guys that approach hot girls even when they get rejected!


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