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Thread: Talking about Pick-Up to Pick-Up

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    Default Talking about Pick-Up to Pick-Up

    Is talking about Pick-Up strategies with females to pick them up wrong in some way? I mean they get very interested in the subject, especially when I start talking about reading body language. I tease them when I "read" their body language and tell them how they feel when they do something like bush their own hair, fiddle with their clothing, and make a lot of eye contact with me while I speak. They get flustered quick - sometimes they even believe that they felt that way, sometimes they deny it and try to explain why they did a certain thing.

    It sounds counterproductive to try picking up while talking about pick up, but for some reason females are so interested in the subject and interested in how much I know - they start asking me questions.

    All I can think of is that maybe it DHV. This also reminds me of the "I speak girl...." strategy, which works like a charm during text messaging.

    But really... is it wrong?

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    Default Re: Talking about Pick-Up to Pick-Up

    I don't see anything wrong with it morally or ethically if that's what you're talking about. If anything, it's probably more ethical since you're being honest about it.

    I guess it all comes down to whether or not it's effective. I'm sure its great to keep the conversation going, but it may also keep girls from going very far with you. Honestly I don't know, it'll have to be field tested. Either way, it's an interesting idea.
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    Default Re: Talking about Pick-Up to Pick-Up

    No there's absolutely nothing wrong with it! Stay honest all the way!

    If it works for you, roll with it, spark their curiosity. I've even showed many girls I've dated some of the books and talked about how they helped me understand girls and become more confident. The ones I've got sit publicly on my bookshelf in my living room. I've actually been quite fascinated how curious and receptive girls are to this stuff.

    Pride in pickup is good, talking about it just shows your confident. Work with it. It's honest, it's open, it's good.
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    Default Re: Talking about Pick-Up to Pick-Up

    Do it. One of the basic fundamentals is girls like guys who are secure and don't fall to social awkwardness. Being able to be open about it is a plus. Better then getting called on it and then turning defensive.

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    Default Re: Talking about Pick-Up to Pick-Up

    I always elude to it, without ever saying directly that I've been learning it.

    Usually I'll tell her something like "I've always hung out with the girls... even back when I was in school. Whenever there was a social gathering of any kind, the rest of the guys would be acting like fools, while I was hanging with the chicks. And it paid off because, over the years I've learned more & more about how to understand women better." (Or something to that effect.)

    Then, they get inquisitive & start asking questions, or for me to give them examples.... so the conversation becomes wide open & the chance of having that "Awkward Silence" is pretty much eliminated.



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