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    Default I fucked this up pretty bad

    Okay, i farked this up, i need guru help and really tell me all the mistae i have made...

    My text game with a girl, got to be my worst text ever so far, can someone please help me, i liked her too much and i just farked it up...

    Me:
    Hey *****, It's so hot in Spain, save me !

    Me:
    fark Sake, ignore me one of time, I am never start a conversation with you again.

    Girl:
    I actually wasn't ignoring you I read your message and forgot to reply. But you know what Tom, what you just said to me was plain rude so don't bother starting a conversation with me again. The way you just spoke to me was inexcusable.

    Me:
    haha, very well. standing up for yourself... Hope you weren't reply to this just before you went to bed thinking about me

    Me:
    I was rude. I am sorry. I didn't realise, i just expect people to reply when i speak to them.

    Girl:
    Okay, thankyou for apologising. I have to admit though you have changed recently. I liked the old Tom who didn't swear and wasn't rude to me. Have a good time in Spain.

    Me:
    wow, wishing me to have a good time already, you are coming over to save me from this hot weather, getting a tan already

    Me:
    and if that's the case you aren't going to like me for a while then

    Girl:
    Well I don't really know what to say to that but I guess ignoring you would just make you angry. Just think it is a shame that you need to use the language that you do and be a bit rude to express yourself! Don't know whether you think it is cool or something but it really isn't.

    Me:
    This is getting no where; I won't swear at you again, what's your plan for the summer then ? smile please ****girl's name*** !!

    Girl:
    Just being honest and think you need to hear it! I am going to Scotland soon and it's my sisters 18th next wednesday so are having a party.

    Me:
    Yeah, you know i find it kind of cute when a girl try to mothers me, but kind of annoying, hard to say. Almost forgot you're half scottish.

    Girl:
    I'm not mothering you. I am saying it from a friends point of view. If you care at all about how you come across to people then I would consider how you behave and act that is all I am trying to say to you.

    Me:
    Thank you.
    why are so serious all the time ?

    Girl:
    I'm not serious all the time. If you think I am, then you really don't know me very well. I'm just being honest with you right now.

    Me:
    Thanks for your honesty, appreciate it.

    Girl:
    Not sure whether you are being serious. But hope you have a good time in Spain. See you in September.

    Me:
    I was i was , have a good time in Scotland too...
    I think i was*

    I farked up this whole text pretty badly, got to be one of my worst ever conversation. I guess it's NEXT for me then, i like her that's why I farked this text up ...

    Any help is much appreciated

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    Default Re: I fucked this up pretty bad

    Dude.... I mean at least you acknowledged your errors

    Your first phrase? Really not bad as far as text opening goes.

    Your next line? Well basically after the first line it's all in the toilet

    You shoulda just chilled out, you put too much interest and expectation into this girl, so you were eagerly waiting for her to text back

    First, not everyone is going to text back. If you are that dependent on one doing so, you're gonna get let down
    Read this post, it relates http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...html#post32986

    Second, just chill out. If she takes a day to respond, take a day to respond back

    Third - you got straight up hostile. That never works in any situation. Ever.
    There are times to call a girl on bullshit, but never with hostility.

    You got so caught up in waiting for a response that you got upset, that anger stayed in you during the whole conversation. Don't text mad. Write out a text if you need to, wait 10 minuts and see if it still seems like a good idea.

    Just pace yourself, relax, understand text game is about making them wait for your reply, not the other way around. Even if you are waiting, pretend you weren't. Never show them you were.

    We've all got sticking points and I have every confidence you can progress. Good luck
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