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    mrtorrence is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I've hooked up with this girl but need help closing

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    So I've been friends with this girl for a while (we go to college together) and we hooked up for the first time a few months ago, then another time on the dance floor at this club, and then a third time recently but all we've done is make out. About a week ago we were out together and she had dropped at least a few subtle hints, but this girl is also very playful so it's hard to tell. Anyway, we're at the bar together and it's kinda lame and we're talking about leaving. Now I'm sure there are a couple ways to play it from here but I basically froze up. As far as I was concerned she was asking your place or mine, but I wasn't sure if she was ready for me to just grab her and get her out of there. Should I have made out with her at the bar to get it going or what are some other strategies in this case to close. If it were some girl I just met I think I would have gone for it but sometimes when you've been friends with the girl for a while it can be harder. Thoughts??

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    Default Re: I've hooked up with this girl but need help closing

    All you need is a plausible reason for her to come back.

    I'm not really feelin this bar, you wanna go back and throw in a movie?

    That's all you need. You can use any other reasonable excuse to go to your place, something she needs to see, etc, but the movie is simple, safe, classic.
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    Default Re: I've hooked up with this girl but need help closing

    I agree with red baron, but just wanted to add, make sure that you make it as smooth as possible. Don't give her the chance to think twice, but since you already escalated pretty well over a long period of time, it shouldn't be that bad.


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