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Thread: neg for girls who disagree a lot

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    Unhappy neg for girls who disagree a lot

    is there a special neg when girls just keep disagreeing with EVERYTHING you say and others keep backing them up even though i'm right

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    Default Re: neg for girls who disagree a lot

    I think this sounds like a deeper residing issue. Trying to feeling your right is a problem, who knows both could be right based on perceptions.

    I'd pick up a copy of Difficult Conversations. Its not healthy being in a conversation worry about who is right or wrong, it ends up no where. Its not really a pick-up issue.

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    Default Re: neg for girls who disagree a lot

    no its not about me being right its about EVERYTHING i say they disagree like i say that was a good movie and they all say that was a bad movie they ARGUE ABOUT EVERYTHING
    is there a routine that i can use to get her to STOP ARGUING

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    Default Re: neg for girls who disagree a lot

    Quote Originally Posted by LIL G View Post
    no its not about me being right its about EVERYTHING i say they disagree like i say that was a good movie and they all say that was a bad movie they ARGUE ABOUT EVERYTHING
    is there a routine that i can use to get her to STOP ARGUING
    If you think they're doing it just to get a rise out of you, the best way to handle it would be to roll with it, & then make a comment like,

    "You know what I really like about you? You're sooooo agreeable & complimentary. I feel a special bond between us getting stronger with every passing minute."

    That way you're calling her out for being ridiculous all the time, but also playing along with her game & showing you're unfazed by it.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: neg for girls who disagree a lot

    There has to be an underlying issue if it is happening from more than one source. A routine will not be a solution for it, unless you find out why it is happening and a way to solve it.

    A neg is to lower a girl below your value if you don't present yourself as a high value male.

    Practice controlling the frame and not being defensive, critical, or confrontational. Its tough providing generic answers without examples, give us a detailed one.

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    Default Re: neg for girls who disagree a lot

    I think it could be the cause that i did not dhv much
    could that be the difference maker ?

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    Default Re: neg for girls who disagree a lot

    A lot of DHV is with your inner game and how you carry yourself. I'm not a huge believer DHV stories work too well, because most come off as bragging and doesn't subtly subcommunicate what you desire.

    If its just one social group of girls, maybe ditch them. If it is multiple groups and random girls...I try to find a wing or video tape yourself and openly listen to what they say. Without more info its tough to give any reasonable help.

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    Default Re: neg for girls who disagree a lot

    LIL G,

    Don't waste your time with women like this.

    I don't think you should have to be fighting 'round the clock just to get her to bring down her bitch shield. Yeah, it should take some work, but nowhere near this amount.

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