Re: Major Approach Anxiety
You get AA because you wait more than 3 seconds to approach. - if when you see a girl you like, you just say a simple 'hi', AA won't happen.
There is no need of canned openers, simply because no Opener is going to make a girl fall for you if you don't keep her interested and attracted to you after you open..
just remember, whats the worst that can happen? she rejects, so what?
when i Approach A Girl and she rejects me, i will still feel better, because
1) i won't hate myself the next day (like you are saying you do) for not knowing if i had a chance or not..
2) i had the balls which almost all guys didn't in that club (and even though i got rejected, they were jealous of me approaching)
3) when you get rejected, you learn!
to overcome the AA, there's nothing to do except practice, what i did, was play a game with it,
"Either Approach or Pay"
your friend, chooses a girl for you, you MUST go talk to her immediately, and if you don't, you have to pay him a fixed amount agreed before, or a drink or anything you like, and then do the same for him - its the only method i used to defeat AA
Remember fear of loss, is bigger than fear of rejection..
Note: At first, approach HB6/7, dont go for hb10's and work yourself up to them, little by little..
hope i helped a little
The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!