I was in Paris for 2 weeks to learn the language, and the last week a cute girl came into class, smiling and looking at me. On my last night I made out with her. 3 weeks of messaging followed, she was coming to visit Amsterdam and I offered to show her around. Re-initiated attraction, and kissed again.
What was weird, it that after that "first" kiss she said "Why did I had to initiate the kiss in Paris?" I was baffled, I didn't know what to say. The kiss itself: I started with "are you are good kisser? " Which got me a positive reply. Then we put our foreheads together, but she is a bit shorter, so at that time I found it hard to reach for her lips, I thought she first had to raise her head, which she did.
But why does she make such a big deal out of this?
Moving on, attraction went through the roof! For example, Saturday night we went clubbing, and she would be kissing my neck, so I was like "Let's go to your hostel" which she replied "I'm sleeping with 2 other people in the hostel". Sounded like a legit answer. Later, I asked again, she said "But its only our second date!"
Again, I didn't know how to respond. How would one correctly escalate for sex? Just drag her out of the club? :P
day2, I think I was too nice. I guided her around town for the day, I took the lead. We had fun, talked a lot about everything. I think I gave too much compliments about how I like her, and at the end of the day I said like: "Not only you are attractive, but I like you as a person too! Had lots of fun today!"
Yeah, in retrospect I went overboard there :')
On the plus side, you could tell from body langauge she was attracted to me, holding hands and stuff.
End of the day she said "thank you, I've had the most amazing day today" Which is good, but the next day she was leaving and I didn't plan a rendez-vous. Stupid. That evening I messaged her on Facebook like: "Hi sunflower! Had an amazing day today! See you tomorrow! Xxx" implying I wanted to see her, of course. :P
Next message was full-blown beta: "You know, nice isn't half as nice as Amsterdam I want to see you! where are you? Xxx"
PS: we went clubbing on Saturday, and as a result of that I only got 2 hours of sleep, that doesn't help very much :P
The point of this post is to get pointers. what went good? What went less good? I still need to learn a lot :P