kino escalation on a first date with a girl from work? This OK?
I have a question about kino escalation I was thinking of doing on a first date with a girl from work. I have IOI's, rapport, comfort, have had kino but only in work (touching her hand, small of her back, tatoo on the upper part of her leg) and now hopefully some tension (see my previous posts...thanks for the advice from the people on here!)
So I was planning when we meet outside of work for a first date that when I first meet her, I get close and put my arms out for a hug (expecting it - and compliance test).
Then I start to turn away (roll off) after the hug but offer my hand back (to hold hands - another compliance test) to hold hers, to then lead her to where we are going first. If she does not comply I have plausible deniability and am giving her an IOD by offering my back and starting to walk away.
If she accepts the holding hands, I lead her to the place we are going and as we get to the entrance doors, I pull her closer, break hand contact but guide her through the door with my hand on the small of her back.
Then bounce her to a few different venues doing the same thing but also escalating pulling her closer in each venue if there is no resistance.
Is this an appropriate use of kino escalation for a first date? Would you go for the hug/holding hands initally? Or is this too bf/gf?
What would you do differently, if not?
Your advice/opinions are appreciated, as always.
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