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Thread: kino escalation on a first date with a girl from work? This OK?

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    Default kino escalation on a first date with a girl from work? This OK?

    Hi,

    I have a question about kino escalation I was thinking of doing on a first date with a girl from work. I have IOI's, rapport, comfort, have had kino but only in work (touching her hand, small of her back, tatoo on the upper part of her leg) and now hopefully some tension (see my previous posts...thanks for the advice from the people on here!)

    So I was planning when we meet outside of work for a first date that when I first meet her, I get close and put my arms out for a hug (expecting it - and compliance test).

    Then I start to turn away (roll off) after the hug but offer my hand back (to hold hands - another compliance test) to hold hers, to then lead her to where we are going first. If she does not comply I have plausible deniability and am giving her an IOD by offering my back and starting to walk away.

    If she accepts the holding hands, I lead her to the place we are going and as we get to the entrance doors, I pull her closer, break hand contact but guide her through the door with my hand on the small of her back.

    Then bounce her to a few different venues doing the same thing but also escalating pulling her closer in each venue if there is no resistance.

    Is this an appropriate use of kino escalation for a first date? Would you go for the hug/holding hands initally? Or is this too bf/gf?

    What would you do differently, if not?

    Your advice/opinions are appreciated, as always.

    Thanks
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    Default Re: kino escalation on a first date with a girl from work? This OK?

    Jesus man, it sounds like your trying to play a video game instead of get physical with a woman!

    Here's an idea. If you like this girl and feel like touching her in a certain way then make a move and do it. It will quickly reveal the girls that are into you and drive the ones that aren't away. Best wishes.

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    Default Re: kino escalation on a first date with a girl from work? This OK?

    STOP THINKING!!!!!!

    Get intoxicated in the moment, be present, have tons of fun. Kino and escalate on instinct, if she's attracted it will all fall in place and go as far as you lead. If you starting thinking and hesitating, she will subconsciously realize it and will make every thing try hard and awkward. Be focused outwardly and learning about her, let her build that emotional connection and lead!

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    Default Re: kino escalation on a first date with a girl from work? This OK?

    The guys are right, don't plan it out step by step. But beyond that the kino would be fine.

    The issue is it really can't be scripted, it just won't work. You gotta see where it flows naturally. Go in for the hug, plan to prod a bit, and focus on being in a playful teasing mindset and don't be afraid to touch her

    You don't want too much hand holding really. Beyond that yes ramping up kino on the first date sets the frame right, but be aware it's gotta be felt out more than planned
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    Default Re: kino escalation on a first date with a girl from work? This OK?

    Hi,

    Thank you all for your replies.

    Yea, I think I was over thinking it too much. As you say, I have to just be in the moment and see what unfolds/seems natural.

    I will just be playful with it

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    Default Re: kino escalation on a first date with a girl from work? This OK?

    yeah just chill out. But if you want a technique to follow then why don't you do what you do at work? It seem to work...touch her tattoo, her neck, her hair and rapport will build much faster that in the workplace!


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