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Thread: The "maybe" response

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    Default The "maybe" response

    I asked a girl to dinner and she responded with maybe. When I asked what maybe meant, she replied it 'depended on whether she felt like getting dressed up or not'. I said the only thing she should feel is hungry. She said she didn't really feel that lately. Then mentioned a club that was her favorite. Does maybe mean yes but I should have asked her to the club she mentioned? What does maybe mean in general? I am 99% positive she's playing hard to get, but I could be wrong. Any advice?

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    Default Re: The "maybe" response

    It's hard to know for sure without having more background info...

    But a lot of times guys will ask a girl out to dinner, without establishing any solid connection first.

    And a girl doesn't want to commit to a 2 hour "dinner date" with a guy who hasn't shown her any fun or interesting things about himself yet.

    So, rather than risk the chance of being bored to tears, they'll simply decline.

    That might be what she's concerned with, if you went in too soon with the "dinner" question.
    (It also depends on how you "asked" her as well.)


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    Default Re: The "maybe" response

    9/10 a maybe is a yes without the commitment, ya feel me?
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    Default Re: The "maybe" response

    To me it sounds like this girl is either not interested and doesn't want to tell you that or she might be lightly interested and keeping her options open.

    If you've got a certain day available I would press her for a yes or a no and if she's not interested or doesn't give you a definite answer keep your own options open or move on and make other plans. Make time for women that show they're really interested in you by their actions instead of trying to make the girls on the fence a priority.


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