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    Link777 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Got stood up now what?

    Hey guys,
    I was supposed to meet this girl for coffee, but she didn't come. Now what do I do? I would stil like to get with this girl but it's not essential. If she texts and apologizes what do
    I say? What if she doesn't text and apologize at all? What should I do? All the help I can get is appreciated. Thanks guys
    Sincerely Link

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    Default Re: Got stood up now what?

    Regardless of how she responds she should make it up to you. But how to go about that depends on the dynamics between you two. Things like how long have you been dating and how do you act towards each other.

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    Default Re: Got stood up now what?

    This was just supposed to be our first time hanging out. I met her at a party a couple of days ago. Should I text or call her first? Or should I wait for her to figure it out? What if she never apologizes?

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    Default Re: Got stood up now what?

    Then it's best to play it cool for right now. Text her but show indifference when you do. Wait about a week or two before contacting again. When you do, try to avoid asking for another meet up right now until more attraction or comfort is built.

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    Default Re: Got stood up now what?

    Next her. Don't waste your time or tolerate that behavior without a very sincere apology, commitment to change that behavior. Way too many women out there to be needy over her.

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    Default Re: Got stood up now what?

    Quote Originally Posted by chet25 View Post
    Next her. Don't waste your time or tolerate that behavior without a very sincere apology, commitment to change that behavior. Way too many women out there to be needy over her.
    nuff said! chet25 is absolutely right!


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