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    Exclamation Personality Tweak Needed!!

    I'm not a good looking guy, but I'm tall and have good humor and charisma. In most groups I enter, the attention is focused on me, and everyone laughs at my jokes. My personality just isn't getting me anywhere. I know a LOT of girls (as acquaintences) but out of all of them NO girls are attracted even though I'm seemingly alpha? Is it because I never wear anything fancier than a t-shirt and jeans/cargo shorts? That may be too little information, but if you guys could help me tweak my personality a bit I'd appreciate it. Just ask if you want more info. Thanks

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    Default Re: Personality Tweak Needed!!

    You might just be coming off as "too nice", & maybe not expressing enough "edginess" or "bad-boyish" traits.

    I was that way in high-school... friends with everyone because I was upbeat & funny... basically a "really nice guy".

    So, it wasn't until a couple years after high school that I realized I needed to be a little bolder & "slightly brash" at times, but without over-doing it.

    That might be the case.


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    Default Re: Personality Tweak Needed!!

    Hmm, that sounds about right. I'm just afraid I'll lose my signature humor if I go edgier

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    Default Re: Personality Tweak Needed!!

    I've been there, but gotta say, don't be a clown. Making women have fun doesn't mean you have to be "funny". Just make sure when you're being funny, you're making witty humor... Not dumb that's what she said humor.

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    Default Re: Personality Tweak Needed!!

    Haha, clown is actually the right word. Imma work on it.

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    Default Re: Personality Tweak Needed!!

    There is a term called the "dancing monkey" which basically means you are good entertainment. Your value is based on how long you can keep that entertainment going because as soon as you stop, they start looking elsewhere. If this is what you think is you then read on my friend.

    I am an avid dancer. I love it and it's such a great way to express yourself and loosen up after a hard week of work. By no means am I the best dancer though. I come across break dancers quite a bit and they do the most amazing things. But here's the thing.....sometimes they will see what I do and try to battle me. So beings that I NEVER battle I, instead, egg them on to do their routines in front of everyone and I actually clap and cheer them on. I do everything I can to make it look like they are putting on a show FOR ME. Do they get girls? Most likely not if they have the mindset that they have to impress women with their moves. They don't understand that the shows over when they finish so they can't rely on just that to woo a woman.

    You should be comfortable with whatever humor works for you, but if you find yourself having a hard time escalating with a woman because you feel you have to leave the funny guy behind in order to do it then this is your obstacle and you have to get out of your comfort zone. If you feel you haven't yet, then work on your sexual side. Always assume attraction and burn into your mind that women like to be hit on and flirted with and it's ok to express your sexual interest in them in due time.


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