Re: How to talk to HB10 NDR with depression?
How do you know that this girl is depressed? Has she told you?
I ask because from the answers that she is giving you, it does not appear to me that she is depressed. People who are depressed 'generally' do not socialise or want to be around people. Sometimes they don't even want to speak to people. They have no will; no motivation. Sometimes they don't want/can't even be bothered getting out of bed because of the way they feel! Yet, this girl is saying that she is going out to meet a friend and is responding to you.
Like Cody said, you are acting beta and it just appears to me from her answers that she is not interested in you.
You are stating things to her such as:
'she should make you feel happy by coming with you somewhere' and
'that you need her to be with you'.
These statements sound very needy and that you are putting her up on a pedestal. Should it not be the other way round, i.e. you DHV by stating that you would make her feel happy?!?!
If she dosen't know you or even met you yet, then you are more that likely going to/have scared her away already.
I think you might have freaked her out. She sounds very defensive in her answers to you because what you are saying to her sounds unrealistic and is too full-on.
"Named must your fear be before banish it you can."