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Thread: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

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    Default My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    Hey guys,

    This is my first post. I just want to say thank you to all those who post amazing advice!!

    Anyways, I'll try n keep this short. I met this HB9 in my theater class. I can tell she was attracted to me and me to her. We hung out in a group once and had fun. I kino'd like crazy(slapping on the ass, handholding etc...). Nothing happend that night. I Dhv'd myself that night cause another girl was trying to be all over me, and that I think, made her a little jealous. 2 weeks later she brings a guy to the bar we go to after class. They were sitting there all close kind of holding hands etc... I kept my frame, Said Hello to the guy and joked around with him. the next day I went to New York for a month. I never contacted her or anything. A week after Im back she texts me Hey. And we kinda txt back and forth a little.
    We see each other every Monday in class, and we flirt and Im like the best Actor in our class(huge DHV)
    OK, this was 2 months ago..... Fast Forward to last week: Here's my struggle:

    I invited her to a mutual friends BDAy, we go and have a decent time. It was kind of boring, so ME, Her and my friend got drunk and left to a bar. We kept drinking and got hammered. Me mainly, haha. Anyways we end up at my Studio Apt(small place). at 3am. Me, her and my buddy. My buddy immediately crashes on the couch and she jumps in my bed. I take my shirt off and jump in my bed too. So, there we are, she has her back to me and Im kissing her back a little and my buddy is literally 8 ft away on the couch and could see everything if he wanted. I start massaging her stomach and finally make my way down to her Vagina and start fingering the sh1t out of her. She was wet in like 10 seconds. I keep going and (I was drunk, don't judge me) start kinda dry humping her? I keep fingering her and then I somehow stop. I can't really remember why. The next thing I do remember is she puts her head on my chest and we snuggle and fall asleep together. I was hammered kind of. The next morning I get up and put on music, all 3 of us joke around together while waking up. My buddy has to go to work and then she starts getting up to leave .. So she hugs me and I tell my friend "hey bro walk this chick to her car"(trying to be all Alpha or manly??) They leave and 2 minuted later she txts me saying " you suck" I said "why" and she never responded. I txtd her after work and we had a little flirty conversation going about me massaging her back next time I see her and she was into it. Then I said "OK, but you have to give me one too" and her reply was " Thats ok. Im good". I of course never responded back. That was Sunday Night. She wasn't in class on Mon.

    So my question is: Whats my next move?? 1) Did I Fark up in her eyes by not having sex with her that night? Does she think Im less of a man cause I didn't Fark her?
    2) or is she mad at me cause I didn't walk her to her car?
    ....In my defense I had my buddy 5 feet away from us. I was wasted. Did I show her to much respect by not farking her?

    Im so confused and Im getting many different responses from people that don't know jack!! thats why I value this communities opinion. I, of course would never show emotion or ask this girl what Im thinking or how she feels, or where I stand with her. I am in the alpha frame and know the game and how to hold my frame. I have been beta with my first love and thats why I lost her. I know kind of what to do now. But I need your guys' help.

    Guys, sorry for the long post, please let me know how I should proceed!!

    Cheers boys

    Inter1010

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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    i think stopping where you did, shows DHV, but reassure her because she may be inseccure on confused as too why you did not go all the way. but don't be to foward about it, just say, where was my sexy ass on monday?

    Thats my opinion, but hey you should say what ever your connection relates to, sexy ass was just an example.

    I'm sure others will have there opinion. I just put myself in her shoes and understand how women feel

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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    another good line if she hints why you didnt go all the way, is " i just want to enjoy the rest of you first!" old school saying
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    I'm thinking YOU should have walked her to her car.

    Girls LOVE that SH1T!!
    "Chivalry" is not beta... just remember that.

    She wanted YOU to walk her out, so she could have a few more minutes with you.... and most likely get some more kissing time in at the last minute.

    I'd say you were over-thinking what it means to be "Alpha" & went a little bit too far into the cocky zone.

    However; If she's still responding to phone calls & texts you're golden! NOT sleeping with her that first time isn't as big a deal as you might think.

    I've purposely not slept with a girl when it was seconds away from happening. (We're talking stripped down to the last item of clothing.) BUT... the next time we hooked up? I was practically raped...

    Anyway, my point is; It's TOTALLY OK to show respect & be polite.
    I don't care what stage you're in with a girl; showing a pinch of sweetness is worth 100000 times more than cocky, even if cocky were pure gold.

    So, as long as you're still in the mix with her, NOW is your chance to be Alpha. AND totally charm the sh1t out of her!



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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    I think you did hurt yourself. You let it get awkward and stopped you from being a "man or alpha." She was there for your taking and not showing any LMR, your instincts should of taken over without thinking and just did it.

    Have to develop into being intoxicated in the moment. Women will over analyze things and push themselves away if you over-think before acting. From my experience, if you can develop this you'll see how girls love it and will follow. You'll see that 3 way kisses, getting it on in bathrooms, cars, threesomes just occur because your not thinking and letting instincts take over, while leading the interaction subconsciously.

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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    She's not mad about the no sex thing. That's understandable when you're smashed. It was the car that got her. It made it seem like you aren't willing to put for some effort for her or that you're just plain lazy. That was your big screw up
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    Sometimes its good to be an ass Yea she was upset, but I'm sure the tension between you was raised. Can't be a nice guy all the time and its not like she's NEVER going to get upset with something you do. Next time she says you suck just say "Ya know I've been getting that alot lately. And I keep saying 'Nooo I lick.'"

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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    Hey Brothers,

    Thank You all so much for the responses. Im not the greatest at getting my point across through writing, Im much better at talking.

    Chet: I didn't make it awkward. I was just literally in and out of drunkeness. We fell asleep cuddling.

    bandit/tmal: I get it, your right. I don't know why I didn't walk her out. I was still undressed in my bed and she seemed rush. She did however leave a watch and bracelet behind...Im hoping purposely!!!

    Tyrone: thanks bro, I hope I showed DHV, even though it was by accident.

    So, you guys think its a good idea to not call or txt til like Sunday and then ask her if she wants to grab some dank food and drinks somewhere before our class together? what do you guys think?? I don't want to be the slightest of NEEDY, even though I'm not, and even though I think she likes me.... Ive been reading up on Pandoras box, and I out this girl as a TJI, or TJR. ONe or the other. I read that if you want a playette or seductress to bang you and have the upper hand you have to keep your distance and not call or txt her at all?? let me know If I'm on the right track boys please!! Like if I didn't walk her to her car and was a d*ck, should I make it up to her?? and If I do take her out, should I pay for her? Damn I need to know these things cause I'm over thinking it.

    GOD BLESS you guys!!

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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    also, one more quick question,

    My friend told me that I was a pussy/wimp for not going down on her and making her have
    3 or 4 orgasms...?? He says next time I get intimate with her, I NEED to go down on her this way.... My friends pretty smart but doesn't know Game and Pandoras box.

    That being said and knowing this girl is a TJI/TJR(she is also very social butterfly like), should I still go down on her like my friend said?? or does doing that show me to be TOO MUCH of a horndawg/desperate?? Please help me out!!! Thanks Guys


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    Default Re: My first post!! please tell me How to salvage this Brothers!!!

    I'd send her a text today. Just make it something that she'll respond to like "So, I was just thinking..."
    Let it trail off like that. She'll want to know what you're thinking about.

    Then when she replies back, you can say "Food. me & u before class. my treat! " or anything along those lines. But make it a statement, rather than a question.

    It's TOTALLY OK to spend a few bucks on a girl you've spent time with already. So again, don't think it's "beta" to pay for lunch. You're not gonna spend tons of money, so it won't look like you're trying to "impress her".

    I took a girl out for sushi the first time we met. (My treat) I spent 6.00 for HER roll. Since then, SHE has paid for drinks, breakfast, groceries (But I cooked)...etc.

    Just a few little courteous gestures can go a loooong way.


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