Hehe don't worry I'll update you when there are proper results. This way it'll help you narrow and finalize these theories, I've given you as much information that I can muster, so I hope it's been helpful.
Well I'm hoping this one will help you, it's added an extra variable (the ex of 3 years or girl who just got out of a LTR). On the other hand though the ex could work to an advantage, if she tells him the situation and he starts talking smack about me :P (so that's another, hopeful, variable there) .
Anyway go save Gotham man, the League of Shadows has returned!