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    Exclamation Newbie/Virgin Seeking Major Help and Expert Advice!

    Alright to start things off I'll tell you guys a little about myself. I am about to be 19 years old and going into my sophomore year of college. Unfortunately I am a virgin, heck i haven't even kissed a girl, or had a girlfriend. I am a nice guy, its just that I think i don't put myself into the situations to get a girl, kiss, or anything...I think it is because I am afraid of rejection and I have alot of AA. Like I see a girl I find attractive I don't know what to say, things start running through my mind and everything that comes up I imagine her thinking it is creepy and that I am creepy. So then I don't approach and then I feel like crap, this happens every single time my entire life! i am sick of it, I want to destroy my AA and be able to walk up to any girl I want and make her mine.

    I recently purchased The Game By Neil Strauss. I am 1/3 done with it and I am loving it. Just to add that as a side not.

    Now onto my questions:

    1. How can I eliminate my approach anxiety? I read the thread "Destroy your AA," and it did nothing for me...

    2. As I was reading The Game I came across a part where they were talking about not being like every other guy...like average guys who hit on girls would ask them "Hi, How are you?" "What do you do for a living?" "Where are you from?" etc. etc. I don't want to be like that, I want to be smooth, and spontaneous. How can I achieve this?

    -Or since I am a complete noob, should I start out like every guy and ask those questions and then start moving up?

    3. I go back to college in 2 weeks and I want to start working my campus for girls, but I don't know how to approach them. I need openers, stuff to talk about, etc.

    4. How do I flirt with a girl? Know where and when to touch her?


    Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Newbie/Virgin Seeking Major Help and Expert Advice!

    quick tip of advice since i have to get back to work, mate don't start approaching girls in your college yet. start out side while your learning, at least you wont have to see those girls again right? right.

    tip two, you cant detroy AA you can only condition it thropugh practise, just convince yourself to do it, trust me the first one is scary but after that it just gets easyier and easyier and easyier and easyier, all i takes is five seconds of courage, dont think, be impulsive and just do it trust me i was in the same boat, if you think about it for over 10 seconds in the first stages, your not going to do it, just walk up and do it, not liek she ever going to see you again.

    tip 3, read up one atleast 10 game styles on this site(different styles of game) and see which one suits you best, or use a couple to create your own.

    tip 4. play your strength, find out what makes you attractive to women and work on them, work on your weaknesses to, take pride in your skin, nails, hair, clothing, posture.

    tip 5. have fun with it. if you do not have fun you will just freak yourself out. if you have fun like its an acting exercise or a joke you will flow better.

    tip 6. DO NOT ADD A GIRL ON FACEBOOK AT YOUR CAMPUS THAT YOU HAVE NOT TALK TO IN PERSON ( it shows lack in confidence).

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    Default Re: Newbie/Virgin Seeking Major Help and Expert Advice!

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    quick tip of advice since i have to get back to work, mate don't start approaching girls in your college yet. start out side while your learning, at least you wont have to see those girls again right? right.

    tip 3, read up one atleast 10 game styles on this site(different styles of game) and see which one suits you best, or use a couple to create your own.
    but then where am I suppose to approach girls not at my college?! i am not exaggerating when i say this but my college is literally in bumblefu*k! its in the middle of nowhere, farm fields for miles are surrounding it, so where else am i suppose to find girls?

    and where can i find different game styles on this site?

    thanks for the response.

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    Default Re: Newbie/Virgin Seeking Major Help and Expert Advice!

    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Newbie/Virgin Seeking Major Help and Expert Advice!

    look at all of cody's articules, he is direct approach and is most repected in my eyes, and very respected in everyone elses.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Newbie/Virgin Seeking Major Help and Expert Advice!

    Tyrone got you pretty well handled but I'd like to add a few things. When I first started out in the game I was 19 and I never had a girlfriend. Only kissed one girl and was also a virgin. Want to know what I did to get over this. I pretended that I was a stud, I pretended like I already had sex. By doing this you start to believe it and in believing it, your confidence will get a large boost.

    Second, I got rid of my AA. The way I did it was in the beginning of a conversation with a girl. Have no agenda, don't be thinking I'm going to try n get this girls number and at the same time get out of the negative self talk. When you approach don't think about how terrible its going to be. Imagine the set is going to go great and it will.
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    Default Re: Newbie/Virgin Seeking Major Help and Expert Advice!

    Merry Christmas

    Lol

    Look at all of Cody's articules, he is Direct Approach and is most repected in my eyes, and very respected in everyone elses.

    Aww, thanks man. I love you guys. Lol

    But then where am I suppose to approach girls not at my college?! i am not exaggerating when i say this but my college is literally in bumblefu*k! its in the middle of nowhere, farm fields for miles are surrounding it, so where else am i suppose to find girls?

    Hey Johnny, a traditional cold approach isn't going to fly in a college setting (depending on how large the school is.) Instead, you're going to do much better by maximizing your social construct.


    And where can I find different game styles on this site?

    I like a lot of Rooster's stuff. Click here for a list of all his threads. Bandit is also a good friend of mine who has a pretty firm grasp on the college aspect of game so I would recommend getting in touch with him.

    This is kind of THE MOTHER OF ALL THREADS if you want straight forward content. You could probably spend days reading through all of the links. Each of the guys listed presents a different style.
    Wondering where I am now? Check out my latest project:


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    i better be on that soon cody, triangles lol hahahaha
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    i like it!
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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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