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    Default Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    Hello,

    so I will cut to the chase, here is how it went down. On Saturday a friend and I went to a club with 4 girls. I like one of those girls, meat her before, and we talked a bit in the club, had some fun and took a few pictures together. The next day we talked a bit on FB and she said her uncle died and she was sad. The day after our pictures were on FB and she commented on the ones we were together ignoring any other picture she took with the rest. In the afternoon I sent her a FB message asking if she was ok, she said she was sad, I sent her my number and if she needs anything then she should call. After 2 hours she calls and asks if I was interested for a drive around so that she could get her mind off things. We drove all the way to the beach, sat there for a bit and drove back again. We didn't talk much, I made her smile a few times, she was fiddling about with radio stations and sometimes blasting the volume to the max. Kissed goodnight and that was it.

    Well a couple of days ago it was her uncles funeral. So at night I sent her a text asking her how was she doing. She called back and we arranged to meet at my place for a movie. She came, we watched 2 movies and 3-4 comedy series and fell asleep on the couch. She had her head on a pillow on my knees, I played with her hair, then she had her legs on my knees and then she fell asleep in my arms. Didn't want to make a move so I don't look like a jerk on her uncles funeral. Hopefully if we meet again I will go one step further.

    I texted her last night at around 8:45 to see what she was up to but I never got an answer. She either ignored me or she was sleeping because she didn't sleep at all the previous night.

    My opinion is not to text her or open communication from my side again until she decides to look me up since I have been initiating conversation 3-4 consecutive days now.

    What do you guys think should be my next move
    Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    if she calls you why dont you call her instead of just texting? you initiate it, call her and ask her to hang out go somewhere and then make your move...thats how i view it.

    anyone else wanna chime in?

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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    It could be both. She is definitely looking to you and not someone else. There could belitetally dozens of reasons why she hasn't gotten back to you. And most don't even have to do with you personally. Just continue to be her escape and create good feelings. I wouldn't stress too much about it.

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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    if she calls you why dont you call her instead of just texting? you initiate it, call her and ask her to hang out go somewhere and then make your move...thats how i view it.

    anyone else wanna chime in?
    Thanks for the response my friends.

    The thing is that I have contacted her 4 times now. Twice I have told her to meet up and she responded positively. However last night she didn't respond. This makes me think that not only I am the only one initiating communication, last night she ignored me (or she is still sleeping) so if I make a move once again this will mean that the communication is one sided and I didn't mind her ignoring me. Obviously if she texts me I will play it cool like nothing happened but if she doesn't call/text me then I think calling/texting her would be like begging for attention.

    So this is why I am in a dilemma...

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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    You played your part and did all you could. You're right. If you keep pushing it can come across as needy or desperate. But we can't control women, only influence them. So all you can really do now is just step back and let her come to you.

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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    I think I will step back and do nothing from here on unless she contacts me. Kind of disappointing to be honest since a couple of nights ago we were on the couch and out of respect for her loss I didn't make a move....really disappointing but what can we do

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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    She just texted back explaining that she fell asleep early last night, woke up this morning did some chores and last night she went home had a bath and slept until 10 oclock this morning.

    What should I answer? Ask her out?

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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    Start fresh with your text. It's a new day, so re-initiate with something to make her laugh.
    You kinda have to look at it like starting over every day. (in some sense) Although, it's not like starting completely from scratch.

    Also- it doesn't take nearly as long to rebuild the momentum. Just a couple quickies, and then transition to whatever.



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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    Start fresh with your text. It's a new day, so re-initiate with something to make her laugh.
    You kinda have to look at it like starting over every day. (in some sense) Although, it's not like starting completely from scratch.

    Also- it doesn't take nearly as long to rebuild the momentum. Just a couple quickies, and then transition to whatever.

    Cheers! I took your advice. We went out last night. She was in my arms all night, we kissed, she really seemed to be into me but I have one small concern.

    All night we kissed once which I initiated and then she didn't seem to direct the situation towards another kiss. I'm sure she enjoyed it because she still was cadling in my arms Then I leaned in for a goodnight kiss but she thought I wanted to touch or heads together or something....so since I was tired I said fuck it, kissed her forehead said goodnight and left.

    I am quite sure she is into me I think she is a bit shy though or she might be to sure that she "has" me. So I think my next step is not to send her a msg until she sends one.

    Agree?

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    Default Re: Interested or wanted someone to keep her company?

    This girl is starting to get on my nerves

    A couple of nights ago I text her to come over to my place, she comes, we watch TV cuddling and staff, then we go to bed, she kisses me, she dry humps me and she falls asleep in my arms.

    The morning after, I go to work, she wakes up late and sends me a text message that she went home. She had to go to work in the afternoon until late night so I didnt text her she didn't text me. Now no signs of life from her either

    Whats her deal man? Is she playing me? Because if she is then I have to get my act together


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