OK, first, let me start off by saying I a nice amount about Social Interactions.
I know I still have a lot to learn but I know a great amount of skills. The problem is, I have never really played through the whole," Attraction through Lay" process yet because I used to be anti-social.
Now, I have the confidence to talk to MBs all day, but because I don't wanna come off as needy, I usually show a lack of interest before I even try to talk to girls, which I think is telegraphing to the girl don't talk to me.
I guess I have this mind frame where, I need the girl to show interest first before I move in. And I think its killing me softly every time I see a guy talk to the same girl that I wanted to come to me first.
So my first question is, how do I break that, how do I become needy enough to win her attention by making her win mine? What should I do?
The next thing I want to ask while I'm still here is, should I go through the whole " Attraction through Lay" process with a girl I can't find attractive, because It seems off and I kinda feel unnatural about It, If you think yes please state why.
The last question is a little more personal.
I met this cute girl at a boxing class and she became really attracted to me and even qualified her self without me saying anything.
Then one day, I think I skipped some Kino Escalation and touched her face to much and I also kinda failed to build Rapport. (Keep in mind, I also I may of teased her to much). After all that happen I noticed she didn't talk to me as much as she did at first the next couple of days.
I think she lost a lot of attraction for me so I tried to look as if I didn't see her or notice her. I know I can start from the beginning to build attraction again but I think all this Ignoring has caused us to resent each other to a certain degree.( Like here not looking at me when talking). I think I lost a lot of attraction for her too but I don't Know whether to win her back or let her go.
So my last question is what are you're thoughts on this situation and what should I do? (BTW, I think she has a boyfriend because she's always Texting on her phone)
Thanks So much for just reading this far and I hope to hear great answer, Thank You.