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Thread: One year in the game and still no results...

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    Default One year in the game and still no results...

    I have been in the game for almost a year, have no AA or any problem with my game. Have done couple of approaches at the mall. My biggest problem is that the place where I live is a dead city, or at least the part of the place where I live is dead. Almost to no public transportation, no metro area or so. One needs a car and as a college student I don't have one. How can I meet more women here? If this keeps going on, my mental state is going to crumble. I need to meet women, close to my place enough or hers so that I can close. I don't enjoy clubs or bars, so day game is my only option left here. I have not gotten two numbers only, simply because I haven't had enough opportunities to meet women in my area. I live in Buffalo, NY. I don't know if anyone else is from here or had been here, knows any way to meet more women in their 19-20s, that would be really helpful. Or if you live in a deserted place, what do you recommend that I should do?

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    Default Re: One year in the game and still no results...

    Simple answer: "In-congruence". (I'll explain)

    You have no problem with your approach...
    You have no problem with your game....
    You live in a college town...

    But you can't meet women??? Even at the mall??

    Recap: Here are your "pluses"-
    College / Mall / New York / perfect game...

    Here are your "minuses" -
    No results with women...

    It just doesn't add up. The things you're "saying" don't match up with the things you're doing...

    Maybe you're giving off the opposite vibe when you go out.

    If you can throw us a little more info, we might be able to pinpoint something.


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    Default Re: One year in the game and still no results...

    I have been in the game for almost a year, have no AA or any problem with my game. Have done couple of approaches at the mall.

    That's all I needed to read. You've been in for a year and have made a couple of approaches? That's on you. Don't be a keyboard jockey; get off your computer and get out.
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    Default Re: One year in the game and still no results...

    Great advice from Cody and hes dead right. I live in a small, very crappy area of England for University but there are still tonnes of women around and since being in the game for a month and a half I have made a lot of approaches and gotten 6 solid numbers thus far and been on 2 dates... It's not hard, just talk to someone you find interesting.

    I was sitting in burger king last week on my own and this HB10 with a kid comes in and after my meal I had a 5 minute conversation on just having kids, she was hooked but I was in a rush so I didn't bother the number close especially if she's a mum (what 19 year old student is going to be to a 21 year old mum anyway) and I didn't ask about a father (you normally assume they got knocked up and kept the baby but not the father around here) but it's not hard, just keep gunning and approach everyone and everything!


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