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Thread: Need Advice For # pick up at bar.

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    Default Need Advice For # pick up at bar.

    let me start off by saying, i have NEVER got a number from a random girl before, i always meet girls through mutual friends or work.

    so last night i was at a bar with my buddy's. we went to go get a drink at the bar, and these random girls asked me "Why are all men A**holes? i of course told them, cuz you like it.

    of course, they agreed, i walked away. a little while later i was outside with my friends and they were talking about we need to find girls blah blah blah, so my friend said i bet you wont go and talk to the cutest girl in here, and the cutest girl in the happend to be one of the girls who asked me the question earlier.

    so i approached and started making convo with her, her friend walked away right after i introduced myself. so now it was just me and her. we started making small talk. she was laughing alot and small kino between me and her, her friend came back and said lets go to a different bar, she told her friend "but this guy's really cool i dont want to leave"

    we talked more and her friend kept nagging her about leaving so she told me well i guess were leaving, and she went to shake my hand, i took her hand leaned in and said before you go can i get your number, she said "yea, you seem like a really cool guy" i pulled out my phone and had her put it in, and said goodbye.

    NOW, my question is since i dont ever pick up girls at the bar, how long should i wait before i call her and see if she wants to get coffee or something like that? she does live a little while away from me, but i dont mind driving for cute girls

    any advice/observations about my story (What she did, what i did) would be appreciated.

    thanks guys. Lets help eachother become better pick up artists.
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    Default Re: Need Advice For # pick up at bar.

    2 days or so is pretty standard, although I've recently been sending simple messages the next day "Nice to meet you last night X", or even that night (with your name), so 2 days later then they remember who you are better.

    Getting numbers are not hard. Pretty simple to throw out the "Hey we should hang out sometime" when you're getting a good vibe. The number comes natural after that.

    Anyway good work, keep it up, the more you do the easier it seems
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    Default Re: Need Advice For # pick up at bar.

    In my opinion I would say within the hour, just a quick introduction to make sure that attraction is still there. Just a quick, cocky introduction through text.

    Then don't reply to her that whole day. The problem with delaying to introduce yourself over media is that the attraction dies quite quickly and it's that she went to another bar so she could possibly be building rapport quicker with another guy she met.

    The next day build rapport with her, make sure she's comfortable and casually invite her somewhere.

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    Default Re: Need Advice For # pick up at bar.

    I texted her, she never texted back so, on to the next one
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    Default Re: Need Advice For # pick up at bar.

    I've always waited at least 3 days. I don't agree with contacting her within an hour of getting the number. It's true that attraction can dissipate fast but contacting a woman that quickly just shows neediness in my opinion. You win some and you lose some, but you gotta give it time to simmer.
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    Default Re: Need Advice For # pick up at bar.

    Agreed. I was talking to a girl from work and she said I should texted her the next morning. I morning that's a little too soon
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