This is my 2nd night I have been out with new friends/PUAs in the city. We try to encourage eachother to approach women, and I believe we did a great job over the past 2 days..
There is a big problem here. I came to USA (NYC) like 6-7 years ago..This is my last semester at college and no matter how hard I try, I will never be able to carry a great, smooth conversation with a girl. I have an accent and trying to pick up real Americans. I am trying my best and getting good feedbacks from PUAs about my body language. But, it is and will never be enough. I have opened around 15 sets in 2 days, but I believe I cannot make the transition from being friend, to attraction phase. After my opener, some negs, and games, I get frozen and do not know what to do.
So, guys, (please encourage me here),
Do you think I am hopeless in this game??
What should I do to eliminate the language/accent barrier?
Will I NEVER be a master PUA in NYC?
I consider each of you as my best friend, because we all share the same feelings and we all understand each other. I appreciate your feedback and I wish you the best of luck in the field.
HERE IS WHAT I DID SO FAR IN around 15 sets..
- Approaching/opener : I have to go in a minute, but I need your opinions on smt I have been arguing with my friends. Should I break up with my girlfriend through email or by phone??
girls in the group: By phone.
Me: Why do you think so?
girls: how long have you been together
me: 2 months
girls: you need to talk to her face/ or phone..why are you breaking up?
me: She started using drugs, and became a totally different person, I cannot communicate with her anymore..
Then, I thought this opener needs be changed and I used "a friend of mine will break up with girlfriend. Should he break up by phone or email?"
Girls: Why is your friend being a pussy and do not talk to her in person. (I lowered my value when I opened the set with the first opener, maybe with this one too.)
ME: She started using drugs and he said he cannot communicate with her
ME: (to my target) You have an eyecrust right here (pointing that fake eyecrust, maybe touched, she got shy)
Me: Wowww, did you see that guy overthere
Target: Which guy?
Me: (Showing a random guy) He was checking you out, (she and I laughed..) I think he is perfect for you!!
Me: Do you believe in ESP?
Me: (played the game and got the both guessings wrong.) See, that is the proof that ESP does not work, any you believing in it?
Me: I think you have beautiful eyes
Target: Ohhh, thanks
Me: But, the left one is more beautiful than the right one
Target: (Laughing and telling this to others)
Me: (made a HUGE mistake) I think you look stunning in this dress..
Me: (Taking pics, touching her back, target is so relax)
Me: Will you take my # ?
Target: Yes, give me your # (target rings me and I N closed.)
I did not text here after that, has been like 6 hours.
Guys, please feedback me, this was my second day. I hardly get over the AA. It is so strong, but trying my best.