I recently started daygame and achieved great results. 11 approaches and 6 numbers. All of the girls were 8s or 9s. I wanna meet all of them for a walk or coffee etc. But im not sure if i should call them or text them?
If i call i get the chance to pursuade her that its just a coffee and its no big deal. But also if i call i might put her in defensive mode and she might say no because im too much of an aggressor. First approaching randomly daytime and then calling is not the normal thing to do which might be too much for her.
Text is usually what people do here in Sweden the day after they met the girl. But if i text its easy for her not to answer and the date will never happend. Also, i did approach and hit on her during daytime like a boss. Texting her would make me more like a vagina rather than a boss?
It was my first approaches and some of them could defently tell that i was nervous. And i don't think i was able to build enough attraction in any of the approaches. Thats why i feel like i might need to call to try to pursuade her if necessary.
What would you do and why?