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    Default Need help with approaching a girl who's sitting down with a guy at a bar

    Hello expert PUAs!


    I would greatly appreciate your advice on this one.



    Today when I was waiting at a bus stop for my bus, I spotted a hot woman sitting down at the same table outside a cafe bar with a guy who seemed to kind of neglect her since he was doing something on his cell phone and she kind of looked bored to death in this devastating silence.

    By the way, some of the details of this situation are as follows:
    a) When I first saw the girl, her back was facing me while I was at about 10 to 15 meter distance away from their table when I was standing up and waiting for my bus. So, in the first place the girl could not see me because she had her back turned towards me when she was sitting.

    b) After 3 to 4 minute of hesitation and my approach anxiety, I decided to just shyly walk by their table and check her up while pretending I was looking for something else. She was absolutely stunning, she was probably 9 if not 10. I simply didn't have the balls to approach her while she was with that boring guy because I was simply lost for words and thought that I have no chance of getting anything out of this situation.

    Please let me know how exactly you would approach this girl and also how you would deal with this guy as the obstacle in this specific situation.

    In advance thank you very much.

    Bruno


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    Default Re: Need help with approaching a girl who's sitting down with a guy at a ba

    Hey Bruno! I actually just figured this one out last weekend. I saw a very attractive woman who was hanging around a guy. He didn't seem very interested in her as he was pretty occupied with his phone. I walked up to him gave him a high five, asked him where he bought his shirt and then introduced myself to him and the girl he was with. I held her hand after shaking her hand, pretending that I couldn't hear what she was saying. I pulled her a little closer and continued to hold her hand as we talked. Every now and then I would look over at him and include him in the conversation. I then saw one of my friends out of the corner of my eye, told her I had to go and gave her my phone. She put her number in my phone, asked me to text her my name and I walked away.

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    Default Re: Need help with approaching a girl who's sitting down with a guy at a ba

    Depends on how massive the guy is and if you are an experienced street fighter. Haha, just joking. Well you got to be very careful on approaching a guy and a girl because sometimes a guy will take great offense to that and you do not want to be in a situation where you and a guy is fighting each other over a girl.

    What freeNDC described is good way to approach it. You do not want to offend the guy so you approach them nicely. For the HB you want to grab her attention so you focus on them both but with more emphasis is placed on the HB to show interest.

    I only had approached a girl like this once but what I did was grabbed her attention. While she was looking outside a window while her date was texting his azz off. I stood infront of the window making jokes and she laughed. Once I saw her smiled I approached her and ignored the guy actually. I pretended as if I knew her from somewhere so that way her date didnt know what to think. I did not ask her for her number because I am a very respectful guy but I will ask the question if they are on a date or if he is her boyfriend. Based on the response you can determine whether or not you want to
    pursue 100 percent and n-close when possible.

    Becareful though.
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    Default Re: Need help with approaching a girl who's sitting down with a guy at a ba

    Love the answer of FreeNDC, need to remember that


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