The 'we are into different things' Sh!t test. How would you respond?
I have tried to do a search on this, as I would imagine this this is a fairly common 'Sh!t test' but I have not found much. So, I thought I would ask it here and get your responses.
Basically, how would you respond when a women says to you that 'she can't see how it would work (in a relationship) because we have different lives, i.e. hobbies/interests, etc?
An example was: She said to me 'you don't drink/smoke/do drugs (she does) and that I am active (she is not).
I responded with 'I don't expect us to have the same interests in everything we do. I like to do things without you, either on my own or with friends and you should have time to do the same, i.e. enjoy doing some things with your friends. But I also commented/focused on the things that we do enjoy doing together, i.e. cooking, eating out, lengthy conversations, holidays, etc.
How would you rate my response and how would you respond differently to this?
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