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    Default how do i keep her texting

    So I've known this girl for a month now and we've been on two dates so far, and we've been texting eachother since. We still have great conversations, she just has a tendency of just dozing off and showing less interest.

    I don't want to seem to clingy and I don't want to lose her at they same time, what do I do?

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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    Seems like your probably texting too much and you have completely lost your value. She has you in her pocket. You are no more a challenge to her, even though she may like you, she knows she doesn't have to work for you and thus is losing some of her initial attraction for you.

    All is not lost, but you have an uphill battle. I would suggest icing her out and going cold for a few days and wait for her to text you first. At this point, you might want to arrange to see her and than cancel your plans with her on the day of. Show her that you are a busy guy and that she doesn't consume your frame. She should be chasing you. A few days after canceling on her, you could probably go ahead and contact her and make some plans again. Hopefully at this point some of the attraction is re-gained and you can run better game on her.

    There is a lot written about using texting to just set up meetings with girls and while I think texting has its place in some scenarios, you are generally better of limiting how much texting a girl consumes your time. This is clearly a good example of how texting can sometimes really kill attraction.

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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    Okay thanks, so say this doesn't work, what other come backs would you suggest

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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    if this doesnt work then i would say move on. If you show more itnerest in her she will lose her interest in you completely and its a waste of time. If icing her off doesnt work then its her loss mate

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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    Quote Originally Posted by CCz View Post
    So I've known this girl for a month now and we've been on two dates so far, and we've been texting eachother since. We still have great conversations, she just has a tendency of just dozing off and showing less interest.

    I don't want to seem to clingy and I don't want to lose her at they same time, what do I do?
    I need more details. How long have you known her? How long ago were those two dates? How far have you gotten with her physically?

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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    She sent me a text saying "I miss u", any suggestions, I don't want to sound like I've been waiting for her to say that.

    And I've known her for a month now, and the last time we met was 3 weeks back, I've only gone as far as hugs, I've been taking it slow

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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    I'd just shoot her a reply like, "Well then, it sounds like we need to get together again huh? "

    That way you're acknowledging & accepting her comment without sounding needy, AND letting her know if that's the case, then she needs to do Something about it.

    You're letting her know you're interested without coming across as over-eager.


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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    Freezing girls out on text is a MUST every so often.

    & I miss you texts are an adequate response.... ;-)

    I say use this to get back to her in person, don't keep building an emotional connection without an equivalent amount of kino... Or at least not without enough of a sexual aspect to them. (my philosophy)

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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    Try to limit the amount of time on the phone with a girl, and arrange with for a face to face activity. Only when you have already gone out with a girl, at least once can you settle down for just texting!

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    Default Re: how do i keep her texting

    Quote Originally Posted by Conquistador82 View Post
    Try to limit the amount of time on the phone with a girl, and arrange with for a face to face activity. Only when you have already gone out with a girl, at least once can you settle down for just texting!
    Totally agree with this. However, does the method change when she lives somewhere semi-long distance? Between our schedules it's tough to find enough time for the drive there/date/extracurricular activities/drive home.


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