Ok, so there is this girl I have been gaming for like 2 weeks. On our first date, she told me that she wasn’t attracted to me but liked me as a friend (she is a HOT 27 year old mature looking lawyer and I am a very young looking 25 year old). I convinced her to come shopping with me to replace my favorite clubbing shirt I named “Swag” because it was falling apart.
When she came, I invited her into the house to watch the Olympics while I went upstairs to make an “important phone call” so that she could get comfortable coming back later. So we went to the mall, out to eat, out for drinks, then got stuff so she could wax my eyebrows from the grocery store, chips and dip form the convenience store, etc…(I try to go as many places as possible on the date) then back to the house.
I really messed up here!
When we went to eat, I said that when we first met, I wasn’t attracted to her because of her big nose (jokingly) but that now I think it looks so hot. She took SO MUCH offence to that. Apparently no guy has said that to her since grade 7 and she was going on and on about how she thinks she is pretty and can get any guy she wants. She also said that she would never say anything like that and thinks I am an asshole for saying it.
It was an awkward drive home, but I convinced her that I would tell her some juicy sex gossip only if she would have a drink with me. She agreed and we had deep conversation and a few drinks.
I brought her back to my place and we just got closer and closer talking. Then I played the questions game and ended up making out with her, and she just kept saying that she could not believe I said the nose thing (while smiling and making out with me lol). I think she was really into me because it was a passionate session.
What I am confused about:
I know the nose comment got me action that night. The date was mundane until I said that and then it got exciting. But, wtf! That was way too big of an insult, she almost cried! What do you guys think, should I avoid those types of neg’s in the future or did I do it textbook?