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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    If a girl likes you thats what you should only care about. Dont think for her, you are not her brother or father, you are her Alpha. Her boyfriend could be dating her and 10 other girls and you just lost out on grabbing her away.

    You still can introduce yourself. Hangout with her as a friendly-friendly and you would be surprised by her response. I say introduce yourself and let it go from there. Dont wait too long though.
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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    OK. This is all a bit stalk-style now. You are obsessed, you need to chill out a bit and talk to more girls. You are way too invested in this. It is creepy.

    You are the definition of oneitis right now.

    You should scratch this one completely from your mind, it is built up too much now and you have a lot to work on within yourself.

    Go out and when you see someone you want to say something to, go say something to them. Then come tell us how it went and discuss the situation. Revise your ideas. Then go out again and talk to people you want to talk to.

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    Also, picking up chicks with boyfriends is lame. Only low self-esteem guys with no options do it.


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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    I agree with everything you say up to this point. How is that low self-esteem to talk or pickup girls who has a boyfriend/dating someone? The most common defense mechanism women use on a regular basis is that "I have a boyfriend", "I am talking to someone right now", "I am dating someone right now" etc.

    I beg to differ. I always say life is a deck or cards, in most cases a chess or poker game. As a man/Alpha, you are a hunter. Majority of my male friends who are currently married and guys who I have met who are married told me that they met their wives when their wives were dating someone else. These guys snagged them up by being different, unique and themselves.

    Listening to pandoras box gave me detailed insight on the thought processes of women and it totally make sense logically. Unless someone is married they are totally not off limits. If a woman/female doesnt like you, or not interested she will let you know right away. If a woman is dating or in a relationship she will let you know to a certain extent whether or not she wants to talk to you or not, she will say, "Hey I am currently dating someone right now but ... [pause] for some reason I really like you".

    I use to think like you until one of my girlfriends asked me a question, "How do you know she is truly happy with the guy she is with? Maybe she is with him because thats the only guy that fits build at the moment".


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    OK. This is all a bit stalk-style now. You are obsessed, you need to chill out a bit and talk to more girls. You are way too invested in this. It is creepy.

    You are the definition of oneitis right now.

    You should scratch this one completely from your mind, it is built up too much now and you have a lot to work on within yourself.

    Go out and when you see someone you want to say something to, go say something to them. Then come tell us how it went and discuss the situation. Revise your ideas. Then go out again and talk to people you want to talk to.

    How to improve at anything:
    Performance
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    Also, picking up chicks with boyfriends is lame. Only low self-esteem guys with no options do it.


    Jefe!
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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    Sometimes girls are just saying it and sometimes the relationship is casual, so it is worth checking. I wouldn't back off at the first time she said it because it might not be legit. After checking that it is legit though, continuing to pursue is desperate.


    If a girl has given the promise of exclusivity to an other and is breaking that promise, she is weak, mercenary and not desirable.
    If a girl is with an other and isn't really happy but stays with the other anyway for indirect reasons, she is weak, mercenary and not desirable.

    There are so many awesome women to choose from and these kinds of things are right up the top of any self-respecting man's list of unacceptable qualities.


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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    Based on my past thread you gave me the same answer about messing with girls who has a boyfriend/dating someone. Then I thought about it and read some more PUA material, which drove me to the highlight the point which I just made.

    You mentioned desirable. Isnt that subjective? Maybe the girl is inexperienced, a lost soul ready to be found, bad at making decisions and choosing?


    Quote Originally Posted by Jefe View Post
    Sometimes girls are just saying it and sometimes the relationship is casual, so it is worth checking. I wouldn't back off at the first time she said it because it might not be legit. After checking that it is legit though, continuing to pursue is weak.


    If a girl had given the promise of exclusivity to a guy and is breaking that promise, she is weak, mercenary and not desirable.
    If a girl is with a guy and isn't really happy but status with him anyway for other reasons, she is weak, mercenary and not desirable.

    There are so many awesome women to choose from and these kinds of things are right up the top of any self-respecting man's list of unacceptable qualities.


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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    Not bummed what PUA told you, it is wrong.

    Most PUA material is dumb because it is created by creepy sociopaths. If it is to be consumed at all, it should be largely consumed as inspiration not instruction.

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    Kant would argue that the desire to invest in people who make bad decisions cannot be willed as a categorical imperative. However, its opposite can; namely, the desire to invest in people who make good decisions.

    For something to be willed as a categorical imperative, it must be a rule that you would want to be applied by anybody and everybody in any and every situation.

    Clearly we don't will everyone in every situation to invest in people who make bad decisions, the whole world would be a shambolic failure. So, Kant would argue, it is a mistake to will it.

    I'm not a Kantian though.

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    I would argue something other. You are saying that people who make bad decisions are desirable. The decisions they make are bad according to your own criteria. So effectively you are saying 'Bad = Good'; which is total double-think.

    Making bad decisions is not a desirable quality.


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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    I too met my ex while she had a boyfriend of 3-4 years. Its not impossible. Go for what you want. Make small talk first, get a feel for what she's about. Then next time ask her out.
    Things to keep in mind, Players:
    1. Dont be friends with girls you want to have sex with
    2. if your happy with yourself thats all that matters.
    dont work on yourself for others, work on yourself for YOURSELF.
    3. Always have a Plan B. Because attracting that certain woman never goes as planned.

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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    íHola jefe Mack!

    Obviously it is not impossible to pull a lady of the night who has a boyfriend. It is, on the other hand, absolutely impossible to pull a girl worth having who has a boyfriend.


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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    Read the forum rules... don't get banned.

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    Default Re: How to talk to a Supermarket girl

    I wasn't being disrespectful, I was merely describing this girl accurately.

    What word can I use to describe this type of woman? Is prostitute allowed? I checked the dictionary just now and it doesn't state that it is a pejorative term.

    For now I changed it to 'lady of the night', but let me know what's good.


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