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Thread: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

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    Default 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    I am going to share a short field report but I would also like to ask a question about continuing this encounter. If there is a better place to ask this please let me know.

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    So it was my last night in Vegas. Had bottle service at one of the popular clubs in Vegas. After a few disappointments from girls (some only told me they had a boyfriend much later on, some found out I was much younger than them -- a 27 year old... right as we were about to share a taxi!).

    I call it a night and start making the long, drunken walk back to the hotel.

    I decide to call up one of the girls who I only had a shorter encounter with (one that I don't really remember). I managed to get her number/text her before leaving that night.

    So I call her and we talk about what each other are doing, etc.. But then she hangs up, at this point I'm at my hotel. And I start to call it a night after texting her "did you hang up, or was it me?"

    She tells me that her phone ran out of batteries and that she was charging it. She then tells me that she's married. I'm shocked, I ask her why she's calling me then (it was ~5:30am at the time). She says she's in an open relationship with her husband and that it's cool. After joking around with her over the phone, we make plans to meet in the middle between our two hotels.

    Once we meet up, she asks if I want to go to her hotel. We do. She was amazing.

    I got up, said, "I guess you'll never see me again."

    On the ride back home from Vegas, I texted her asking her her age. "Early 30s".

    I was shocked again. She even wore her wedding ring while we were together.

    My question: The last thing she texted me that she had a lot of fun. I know she's married. I know she's a lot older than I am. But does that have to be the absolute last time we ever see each other?

    If the consensus is that I should try to initiate something with her again, then what would be the best way to try to find out if it's possible?

    Some of my thoughts:
    Text her: "It was great meeting you." ... "Will I ever see you again?"

    -or-

    "Do you go to Vegas often?"

    Thanks guys!

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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    boink,

    I personally wouldn't use either, or even text her ever again.

    What happens in vegas, stays in vegas?
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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    Absolutely, but I hate not pursuing potentially awesome opportunities. No other suggestions?

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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    She's probably lying about the open relationship thing. She also was probably looking for just a for a one-night stand in Vegas and that's about it. I would be really careful about messing with married women. You don't want to get shot or have your ass kicked for a piece of tail. It's just not worth it...
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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    She seemed pretty straight forward with her intentions. Trying to continue has the risk of you looking creepy and further causing trouble. I doubt you could do anything on your part if she was dead set on having a ONS. She is married after all. Ask yourself this....If I am an alpha male that gets women on a regular basis, then why would I want to see this particular woman again?

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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    You guys make some excellent points. I guess I'm just bummed that I won't get to experience her again.

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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    You're looking at it all wrong my friend. You WILL experience her again. Except she may be taller, bigger breasts or ass, may even be a latina, asian, or black. And maybe not even married and still want a ONS. My point is that there are many more opportunities with other incredible women so just take it as an awesome story to tell your buds.

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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    I know I'm just young and inexperienced. Still shocked that this whole thing happened. She was my 3rd girl ever. Also doing it during sunrise looking out at the Vegas strip was a trip.and even though I don't really read pua material anymore,I still attribute some of the success to the community, but I admit it was a ton of luck.

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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    I go to Vegas every year. And what you described is the norm. I think in those places you are there to have fun and keep it that way. No judging, no follow-ups, no clinging, no drag ... pretty much everyone is on the same leveled playing field having fun.

    Every year I go to Vegas with my friends for 4 days. I normally ride solo and hunt, and I rack up 10 numbers a night. Girls normally, after an opener, tell me flat out that they are staying in this hotel and this room and I should come. So its a fun experience and everybody wins, just go with the flow and dont think about it too much. The best way to get over a girl is to get another better one. Thats why its best to have a deck?
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    Default Re: 21 years old, in Vegas, closed married woman..

    Batman's got the right mentality here.

    You're looking at this situation with the glass half empty.
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