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    Default What happened?? She texts me at 2am, now this?

    Hey guys,

    I'm not sure how to approach this situation, any helpful advice is HUGELY appreciated .

    An HB8 that I have known for a while has shown consistent IOIs for some time. Last Thursday at 2am, she texts me the following bit:

    HB: Supsuppppp
    Me: Yo! Wassup still sick?
    HB: Yea
    Super sick ._.
    Still smoking?
    (15 minutes later)
    HB: Yo
    (5 minutes later)
    HB: Nvm I will talk to you in person I guess. U always just read my bbm and not reply
    :broken heart:
    Me: Sorry, was cleaning the condo w/ roomates, open house tmr
    And u can see it as read??, the orange dot was still there
    HB: Yup
    Sad
    This is not how u treat a fragile sick patient
    :broken heart:

    convo went on for a while

    Me: Anyways, hope u feel better soon
    Maybe its just a super severe period
    But yeah, get well soon so I can see u friday!

    HB: Okayyy
    Seeyaaa


    I see her on Friday at her best friend's birthday party, but wasn't able to talk to her at all since she was running around taking care of her friend (who got really drunk). I talked to some other girls there though, I'm pretty sure she noticed.

    I then text her on Saturday, and then on Sunday. Nothing really happened:

    Me: Yo whats my favourite bag of germs been doing today?
    HB: Hahahaha
    I was studying
    Just got home
    Supsup smoker?
    Me: Hahah
    Taking a quick break
    HB: From?
    Me: Didi u know jason (our mutual AFC friend) got a gf??
    Work work work
    HB: Yea
    I knew it the next day cuz I see him quite often these days lol
    Me: Ooic
    I knew they had smth after the trip but damn
    Jason changed so much aft summer
    HB: Hahahahhaa
    I think he's still the same tho lol
    He just got the gf that's it hahaha
    HB: He used to talk abt it a lot lol, proud
    So how's the other co-prez doing?
    HB: Hahahahaha
    The other co-prez's doing fine
    Besides being sick and behind for school
    Life's really good
    Me: Goood
    Gonna get bck to work
    Hurry up and get better soon!
    I need someone to hold my bags. U know I still haven't bought those shoes yet
    HB: Lolol
    Okayokay


    It's been 2 days and she hasn't texted me.

    What should I do now? I don't want to text a third time to try to set up a D2, and although I'm sure I'll see her again in the next month or so I'm not sure when that will be.

    Advice guys?

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: What happened?? She texts me at 2am, now this?

    Quote Originally Posted by deenio View Post
    Hey guys,

    I'm not sure how to approach this situation, any helpful advice is HUGELY appreciated .

    An HB8 that I have known for a while has shown consistent IOIs for some time. Last Thursday at 2am, she texts me the following bit:

    HB: Supsuppppp
    Me: Yo! Wassup still sick?
    HB: Yea
    Super sick ._.
    Still smoking?
    (15 minutes later)
    HB: Yo
    (5 minutes later)
    HB: Nvm I will talk to you in person I guess. U always just read my bbm and not reply
    :broken heart:
    Me: Sorry, was cleaning the condo w/ roomates, open house tmr
    And u can see it as read??, the orange dot was still there
    HB: Yup
    Sad
    This is not how u treat a fragile sick patient
    :broken heart:

    convo went on for a while

    Me: Anyways, hope u feel better soon
    Maybe its just a super severe period
    But yeah, get well soon so I can see u friday!

    HB: Okayyy
    Seeyaaa


    I see her on Friday at her best friend's birthday party, but wasn't able to talk to her at all since she was running around taking care of her friend (who got really drunk). I talked to some other girls there though, I'm pretty sure she noticed.

    I then text her on Saturday, and then on Sunday. Nothing really happened:

    Me: Yo whats my favourite bag of germs been doing today?
    HB: Hahahaha
    I was studying
    Just got home
    Supsup smoker?
    Me: Hahah
    Taking a quick break
    HB: From?
    Me: Didi u know jason (our mutual AFC friend) got a gf??
    Work work work
    HB: Yea
    I knew it the next day cuz I see him quite often these days lol
    Me: Ooic
    I knew they had smth after the trip but damn
    Jason changed so much aft summer
    HB: Hahahahhaa
    I think he's still the same tho lol
    He just got the gf that's it hahaha
    HB: He used to talk abt it a lot lol, proud
    So how's the other co-prez doing?
    HB: Hahahahaha
    The other co-prez's doing fine
    Besides being sick and behind for school
    Life's really good
    Me: Goood
    Gonna get bck to work
    Hurry up and get better soon!
    I need someone to hold my bags. U know I still haven't bought those shoes yet
    HB: Lolol
    Okayokay


    It's been 2 days and she hasn't texted me.

    What should I do now? I don't want to text a third time to try to set up a D2, and although I'm sure I'll see her again in the next month or so I'm not sure when that will be.

    Advice guys?

    Thanks!

    It doesn't matter if you initiate the next text. That's not going to DLV you at all. (especially if she sent the last one, AND it's a new day.)

    You could wait a day or two if you want, but honestly I don't think that's even an issue.
    But you definitely want to keep the contact in place so that the rapport & attraction don't fall off.

    Just keep it fun & humorous like you have been & you should be fine.

    I have a couple girls with similar texting cycles, and it's never been a problem.


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