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Thread: Live training discussion: Next Door Dating Coach (run by Brian Neilsen)

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    Question Live training discussion: Next Door Dating Coach (run by Brian Neilsen)

    Hi all. I'm relatively new to all of this and decided to take some PUA workshops. Initially to my surprise, my instructor was a female who was in grad school for psychology. So anyway, I buy four hours of instruction for $300 and just focused on conversation skills, etc (I did not expect to become a master PUA in three hours so you can save your breath regarding that).

    After that session, I purchased another five hours of instruction.

    I asked for some advice on not only conversation skills, but attraction skills. He told me to let the girl know very early in the interaction that I like her i.e. "I think you have a great sense of style." I don't know if direct game is for me though because I'm a fairly timid guy who just recently overcame approach anxiety.

    Anyway, now that you have the back story here is my query, how do you attract the girl using indirect game by coming in under the radar?

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    Default Re: Live training discussion: Next Door Dating Coach (run by Brian Neilsen)

    If she said anything to do with classic chivalry then Love Systems may be right. Most women won't admit the things that they are drawn to. Such as drama and conflict. Or maybe that they don't get jealous if they see you with other women. A little more info on what she told you would help.

    As for indirect game, you want to attract her by using what's called DHVing. Demonstration of Higher Value. You can do this by flipping attraction switches and using push/pull techniques. You convey these in either real life or through story telling. The idea is the closer the DHV is to her learning on her own, the more powerful it is. Ex: Telling her directly what you do for a living compared to HER friend telling her what you do for a living. So the gist is to avoid bragging and try and convey it in a way that she will learn things about you herself.

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