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    Jared_N is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Best Conversations To Have

    What are some of the best conversations you've had with women who were most attracted to you about?

    I find myself overthinking about what the conversation should be about. I mean my conversation skills aren't terrible, but I'd like some help with this.

    Would really appreciate some examples too if you guys could.

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    Default Re: Best Conversations To Have

    usually when a girl is interested in me, she actually helps me in conversing with her.. so its no big deal.. the worst part is the ATTRACTION phase.. if shes attracted - she will help you converse, by asking you questions about you or opinion on her or some funny story or anything
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Jared_N is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Best Conversations To Have

    Quote Originally Posted by bobat6 View Post
    usually when a girl is interested in me, she actually helps me in conversing with her.. so its no big deal.. the worst part is the ATTRACTION phase.. if shes attracted - she will help you converse, by asking you questions about you or opinion on her or some funny story or anything
    Alright thanks man. So if you can attract her, she will help you through the rest? Didn't really know that.

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    Default Re: Best Conversations To Have

    You are right to recognise that over-thinking about what is good to say stunts you. And, kudos for working out that you do have a bunch of stuff you can talk about.


    Truly ...
    It mostly doesn't matter what you talk about and a bad thing to do is try and awkwardly lever a topic into a conversation because someone on the interwebs told you it 'works'.


    This is a self-trust thing.

    I run an improv comedy night. Improvising is a wonderful learning experience that you would benefit from hugely. You can learn, through experience, to trust yourself because you repeatedly see that the best stuff comes instantly and without effort.

    If there is anything like it near you, given what you've asked, I highly recommend it.


    The littlest tip: If you are out social-styles and you are not sure what's good to say, you could ask yourself (out loud of you like) "What am I passionate about?"

    And then just answer it.


    Jefe!


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