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    Default Re: need some advice before the next move

    I put it to the basic... how 2 throw down a girl with ur attitude... I ask them when I'm bored "Hey You... wanna fuck" it's 50/50 chance
    You only live once so make the best of your life enjoy it LIVE IT TO THE MAXIMUM

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    Default Re: need some advice before the next move

    Hi Bratza
    If I do that now, I will blow it off for good

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    Default Re: need some advice before the next move

    Hey guys,

    Its been almost one week of no contact with the ex and I received no emails or texts at all during this period. I was thinking of dropping an email and asking for a coffee casually, but I its still only one week. After one week No contact seems harder than the second day.
    Sorry for rambling, I feel quite alone and lost and I am sure most of you here would understand.

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    Default Re: need some advice before the next move

    I know you get the feeling that you aren't doing anything. But doing nothing is still doing something. You really think she doesn't think about you? That she isn't wondering what you're doing? Truth is she is. But she's trying to be strong just like you. Its only when she reaches that pivotal moment that she actually lost you will she throw her ego and pride aside to contact you. That is.....if you have a strong rapport with each other.

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    Default Re: need some advice before the next move

    Thanks Batman, I still have my stuff at her place. So she knows that I have to contact her eventually to pick it up.

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    Default Re: need some advice before the next move

    Hi Batman and all,

    A quick update. It was like 3 weeks of no contact with the girl, and I tried to keep myself busy, and then I emailed her casually, because at this point I lost all those intense emotions and only think of her as a hot chick.
    She wrote back like 'I am sorry if I hurted you..it was not intentional, you are a great guy with a big heart blah blah'
    I wrote her back 'Hi, thanks for the kind words. I am going to play badminton on saturday, you are welcome to join and I could also pick up my bag in the evening'
    She replied 'I am at home for the weekend but would love to do something on a weekday..we could go for a walk in the park and have ice coffee or go to that restaurant, see u soon and take care'
    I don't know whats in her mind and what about the boss situation..she seems to feel guilty since she likes me and thinks i am a 'nice guy'.
    Even though I met a couple of beautiful girls in the 3 weeks of freezing out, I still think that first gal is nice. But I don't know how to move from here.

    regards

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    Default Re: need some advice before the next move

    Her message sounds like she almost friendzoned you. Bummer. The simple answer is that if you have any chance left you should focus on building attraction. Forget building comfort. In fact avoid it for now. Learn all you can about the subject of creating attraction so you can have her reaching for more.

    By the sound of it she seems done with everything. You may just have to cut your losses with this one. But remember, its not a failure, it's an experience that you will carry to you next relationship which will be better. So try out all the attraction material you can learn (got nothing to lose and it's good practice) and be willing to walk away after say.....2 weeks of no progress.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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