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    Default Need expert recovery

    Hey guys, I'm fairly new here and I need help salvaging something with an HB9.5

    So, we've gone out a couple times and went very well. I've demonstrated tons of HV. She knows I have a lot of things going for me and that I also have many options.

    I made a really big mistake though, she did a sh1t test on me and I think i failed...She rescheduled 2 dates in a row, I lost my cool (I know i'm an idiot) I told her "Yeah, I think you're interesting and I'd like to get to know you more but, I'm busy so if you don't wanna go out just tell me cause I don't wanna waste my time". I know, I did the one thing you're NOT supposed to do.

    So, I've noticed ever after she's been a little distant. How can I recover from this? I've been freezing her out and making it seem as if I'm the one losing interest. But, I feel she is also and I don't want to lose this girl as she is LTR material.

    Any smooth things I could possibly try out? Pls halp

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    Default Re: Need expert recovery

    C'mon guys.

    I need some help here.

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    Default Re: Need expert recovery

    So, we've gone out a couple times and went very well. I've demonstrated tons of HV. She knows I have a lot of things going for me and that I also have many options.

    I made a really big mistake though, she did a sh1t test on me and I think i failed...She rescheduled 2 dates in a row, I lost my cool (I know i'm an idiot) I told her "Yeah, I think you're interesting and I'd like to get to know you more but, I'm busy so if you don't wanna go out just tell me cause I don't wanna waste my time". I know, I did the one thing you're NOT supposed to do.

    So, I've noticed ever after she's been a little distant. How can I recover from this? I've been freezing her out and making it seem as if I'm the one losing interest. But, I feel she is also and I don't want to lose this girl as she is LTR material.

    Any smooth things I could possibly try out?


    Hey Bud: If you want some replies you have to give a little more info on your situation! How did you meet her? Have you had sex yet? Kissed her?? ... You say you've been on a couple dates already; where did you go? how did they end? Also, you said she's been a little distant. How? have you been txting her and calling her to no availability? ... If you provide these things it will give readers a better understanding of your situation and they'll give you better advice to steer you the right way.

    That being said from what you've given us I'd say just freeze her out a bit. If you do contact her or she contacts you, make sure to hold the frame you had before you got a bit emotional. Be cocky/funny and have fun with her. She exists for your entertainment. You don't need her. All is not lost, you can recover from this. Just don't seem needy. Also, put yourself in her shoes. Say you just met a new "Guy friend from your Pickup BBall league". YOu guys have a lot of things in common and go out and pickup girls together. One day you have to cancel on him, and he replies back with a similar txt you had received!.... Your going to think the guys nuts and keep your distance.!!! Just apply that with girls! ... All you can do is brush it off and make like you have something better anyways. Then to ramp up tension, you cancel on her sometimes. I know its tough when you have emotions attached to it. BUt that is what separates a PUA with an average guy. A PUA can separate himself from the emotion and not seem like he gives a fark! ..... You got this , Good luck Brother!!

    Inter1010

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    Default Re: Need expert recovery

    """ One day you have to cancel on him, and he replies back with a similar txt you had received!.... ""

    Inter1010[/QUOTE]


    I meant to say ..."One day you have to cancel on him and he replies back with a txt you sent to the girl".....

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    Default Re: Need expert recovery

    Quote Originally Posted by inter1010 View Post
    Hey Bud: If you want some replies you have to give a little more info on your situation! How did you meet her? Have you had sex yet? Kissed her?? ... You say you've been on a couple dates already; where did you go? how did they end? Also, you said she's been a little distant. How? have you been txting her and calling her to no availability? ... If you provide these things it will give readers a better understanding of your situation and they'll give you better advice to steer you the right way.

    That being said from what you've given us I'd say just freeze her out a bit. If you do contact her or she contacts you, make sure to hold the frame you had before you got a bit emotional. Be cocky/funny and have fun with her. She exists for your entertainment. You don't need her. All is not lost, you can recover from this. Just don't seem needy. Also, put yourself in her shoes. Say you just met a new "Guy friend from your Pickup BBall league". YOu guys have a lot of things in common and go out and pickup girls together. One day you have to cancel on him, and he replies back with a similar txt you had received!.... Your going to think the guys nuts and keep your distance.!!! Just apply that with girls! ... All you can do is brush it off and make like you have something better anyways. Then to ramp up tension, you cancel on her sometimes. I know its tough when you have emotions attached to it. BUt that is what separates a PUA with an average guy. A PUA can separate himself from the emotion and not seem like he gives a fark! ..... You got this , Good luck Brother!!

    Inter1010
    Jesus, I never thought of it that way haha. I can't believe I did that
    Good to know though. I'll take your advice and brush it off, continue with the plan. I'll keep you guys updated on the situation, hopefully you guys can guide me through it. I do have other options but I also like this one a bit more than the others' so I'd like to make it work somehow.

    So, I'm continuing the Freeze Out but, I got a question...Assuming she does not re-initiate contact within a week or so. What are some good final text attempts to send her?

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    Default Re: Need expert recovery

    I think your best bet is to build intrigue. After about a week just send her a text saying "Lol guess not" She'll wonder what you are talking about and you can just milk it.

    For future reference if a woman flakes on you then depending on the level of rapport you have is how you react. Either way she still has to make it up to you. Frame it as a playful thing and she will likely do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I think your best bet is to build intrigue. After about a week just send her a text saying "Lol guess not" She'll wonder what you are talking about and you can just milk it.

    For future reference if a woman flakes on you then depending on the level of rapport you have is how you react. Either way she still has to make it up to you. Frame it as a playful thing and she will likely do it.
    Hmm...Example? Let's say she responds with "Hmm?" or "What?" I just wanna see what that convo would look like...



    She posted a status update on facebook that I KNOW is about me...Should I text her and re-initiate or continue freeze out?

    Thanks for your help guys

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    Default Re: Need expert recovery

    Just echoing what others have said but you are still not being very descriptive in your posts, OP.


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